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"I'm serious, this is important to me"
Will confirm. Source, a lot of women have said this to me over the years.
I held up a sign for holiday weekend evening traffic, that read, "When can America gain our INDEPENDENCE from ISRAEL???"
Really, it's more of they're dependent on us, a parasite leeching off of us.
And to be clear, there are other nations just as guilty of this.
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You're showing your age.
current mood: pensive
current music: Nickelback
[Insert gay-ass animation thing they used to do]
Tone matters in shit test passes
It's entirely possible even just slightly different tone would have a different outcome
Once again, louder!
Playful superiority, amused mastery. Beats the crap out of taking her serious and replying in earnest.
@Kloi @Bozza @vermilion-Rx I haven't read this thread in-depth, but all 3 of you seem a bit lost vis-a-vie comfort tests and when to give comfort
I recommend the sidebar material at MRP, primarily Athol Kay's "Married Man Sex Life Primer" and Rian Stone's first two books, "Praxeology Volume 1: Frame" and "Praxeology Volume 2: Dread".
A few quick pointers:
1) Agree & Amplify works on shit tests and for general fun, but you will fail comfort tests with it. She'll likely start crying.
2) you don't have to provide relationship comfort if she didn't earn it or if you just don't want to. Some plates are meant to break.
3) comfort will never pass a shit test.
4) you need to know the difference between shit tests and comfort tests. Shit tests are usually "you" statements, such as "you never take out the trash" or "you don't care about anything", and they're the woman instinctively testing your strength. Comfort tests are usually "I" statements, such as "I feel that this isn't going anywhere" or "I'm afraid that you're going to cheat". If in doubt, apply A&A. If it works, it was a shit test and you passed. If it fails and she doubles down with something like "I'm serious, this is important to me" then it's a comfort test and you should switch to fogging.
Do you see why "LTR/ marriage is Red Pill on hard mode" is a warning rather than a flex? We are only scratching the surface here.
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A) if he has you blocked, he won't see that. That's kind of the point of blocking.
B) you're better off without seeing his dreck.
I am genuinely reading the sidebar.
It's about time!
What have you read so far? Which entries?
Make sure you take some time to digest what you've read; don't just skim your way through for the sake of getting through.
Also, I suggest going to Rian Stone's YouTube channel and then to his sidebar series playlist. It's a great accompaniment to (but not a replacement for!) the reading. Listen to whatever video entry is relevant to what you've just read each time.
Maybe soon, you can start to go well!
There's so much I missed on here over the last few days. I doubt I'll catch up, so I'm not even going to try very hard.
@Kloi @bozza already nailed it
I want a woman who is so into me that she can't keep her hands off. I'll suss out her past later.
The one who makes you wait?
1) There's at least 1 guy in her past she didn't make wait (Rollo's proverbial "hot guy at the foam cannon party")
2) she not that into you if she's wanting to make you wait
The American South had to get dragged kicking and screaming at the point of cannons to end formal slavery within the USA,
So what? The fact remains that white people have ended that vile practice everywhere we could.
Hell, if anything, the fact that we were willing to fight our own kind over it^1 is another feather in our cap. You don't see the black natives in South Africa fighting each other over the Boers' right to live; nope, they are united in their desire to "Kill the farmer! Kill the Boer!"
1 - note acknowledging to fellow history nerds that slavery was a tiny issue in the War of Northern Aggression, and to the Confederacy the issue of States' Rights (each state being sovereign within its borders and the federal government only controlling interstate commerce and common defense) and the issue of Southern States consistently getting overruled in Congress due to the population difference were both far more important.
and the attitude of presumptive superiority and dominion over black people still lives on today in huge numbers of the people there. I know this because they frequently blurt it out publicly from their own mouths.
Bullshit.
I have lived in the South my entire life, minus a brief stint at Fort Lewis.
The stereotype of nothing but racist rednecks is bullshit.
One of my best friends in college was a Canadian citizen of Indian descent, and when his family was supposed to move from Toronto to Atlanta, he was scared shitless because of that stereotype. He figured all the anti-Indian racism he had experienced in Toronto would be just a warmup.
Imagine his surprise that after his first 6 years in the Atlanta area, the only racism he experienced there was at the hands of a Cuban immigrant!
Have you ever been to the South? Or do you get all your info from schlock like "The Beverly Hillbillies" and "The Dukes of Hazzard"?
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