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she wasnt really flirting with me or showing any signs of attraction
She's not a fucking man. Women show interest subtly not as directly as men
The fact she did any of what she did was interest. High interest actually
You're coping so hard right now. You are in sheer denial about how ignorant you are about social skills and how poor your social awareness is
There isn't much we can do to help you if you are this socially uncalibrated
No hints or signs or anything.
Yeah, not even a slight sign of interest here. Can't be too sure a woman isolating a man she has never met with her tits posted up against him is a sign of interest
Safer to assume brazen intimate contact from a woman who just met you is just a coincidence and not to try to get a phone number or anything, especially when she initiated the encounter
Everyone knows women just post their boobs up against random men for funsies and it's not related to wanting to fuck a guy whatsoever
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@joyboy Just make yourself do something next time. You have spent so much time failing with women that you now don't know how to succeed. What have you got to lose? The worst is only another failed try. I know you don't want to blow it but don't blow it by not trying.
Decide that you are going to do something next time and then just do it. Even if its clumsy as hell, it will work if she is really interested. At least just make yourself ask for her number. What have you to lose.
If you keep trying, it will all get easier as your comfort zone expands.
Lied to my LTR about my age, not sure what to do now
Hey first please dont judge me, i legit need some advices
i basically look almost 10 years younger than my real age.
I'm 33 yo and told my GF i'm 25 yo, It's been a year now since we are dating, and she is 21 yo.
I used to go out a lot at night and tell every girls i met that i'm 24/25, all of them believed me, so i ended up having this bad habit to lie about my age in club/bars/party settings
I even had girls telling i look youger than my fake age
The night i met her was at a bar, she was super interested, i lied about my age this night as always :/, anyway she text me the day after so we can hangout again, i accept ... and here we are now, 1 year after, still dating, met her parents & familly multiple times, everyones like me
We never had a single argument, she is a nice girl with no red flags, and everything is going fine
I'm not sure what to do now, either tell her everything and see where it goes, and just dump her depsite she is a nice girl ? I feel stuck atm
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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she wasnt really flirting with me or showing any signs of attraction
Right, she only saw to it that you two would be alone together for a few minutes, and attempted to converse with you. While she had her arms around you and her boobs pressed into your back.
No hints or signs or anything.
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I think that's his sense of humor
I think his way of parody is subverted expectations
Either way he drives it home just not as quickly as one would expect
7/10 indeed
@Typo-MAGAshiv I mean what’s to say she didn’t just want a free ride lol I’m sure that was entirely possible. she wasnt really flirting with me or showing any signs of attraction
I wasn’t taking her out
Yes the fuck you were
It was spontaneous
Which is the best way to take a chick out
The only way it gets better than spontaneous is when it's both spontaneous and her idea
Oh, wait...
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@Vermillion-Rx I thought this dude was an idiot for the first two
Then the third one drove home the satirical nature
7/10
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