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Periodic reminder that you CANNOT help your down bad blue pill friends
My friend got broken up with in his dead bedroom relationship, was over texting her when she wasn't putting any effort, and then just dumped him.
Been trying to help him cope and he has decided he is worthless and deserves to be treated like shit
Will not listen to any counter examples whatsoever and is waiting for her to take him back
I've said everything I can to tell him she was trash and treated him like shit and he doesn't care
You cannot help guys with their mouth stuck to the tit of the matrix they're in. It's pointless
Just be yourself is great advice for someone who's confident, likes who they are and the life they live. Unfortunately, most guys that find TRP are damaged/broken at an internal level and haven't really been enjoying life thus far.
This was more of an illustration of what I feel the end goal should be, gaming women becomes a subconscious byproduct of who and how you act. Not a regulatory list of behaviors to fake your way into pussy.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Nice one. A broken machine is a puzzle, solving the puzzle and getting a working machine as the reward is very satisfying.
You say you were not a tool guy when younger. This is actually quite similar to my own story. I was a young intellectual who liked the outdoors but only in a gentlemanly sort of way -it was just a huge adventure playground. I wasn't really practical. Friends would come to me with practical problems to solve because I liked solving problems but I had no basic skills and anything I solved was just from first principles not because I knew how to do it.
I can even remember once telling my friends "I have no interest in being able to fix my car, when I can pay a fat greasy man to do it while I go and do something more interesting" I used to think that guys who liked fixing stuff were really just compensating for small dicks or a lack of anything manly to do in life.
Life took a few turns and I ended up working outdoors as a tradesman and boy did I have some catching up to do! I discovered that it was actually very satisfying to fix something not throw it away or be dependent on getting someone else to fix it. It was even more satisfying to make a part with steel and cutting tools when you couldn't easily buy one. It was far more fun to make ammunition to fit your rifle perfectly than to buy the finest ammunition and the finest rifle.
Being able to fix stuff gives you a feeling of much greater security. You are not stuck being dependant when something goes wrong.
At first my lady looked in disgust at my collection of "junk" in the garage -parts and fixings saved from stuff that is broken. But over time she has come to accept that when something breaks I will probably have "something that I can use to fix that" in my junk. The junk is no longer loathed. At least I am no longer told it should go.
She is glad when I fix stuff but I still know though that she would rather have had a gentleman who just bought the new replacement she wanted every time something broke. However to me its almost a moral issue -why throw away when you can fix? Why buy heating oil when you can cut wood? I am not an eco geek or anything but waste just seems not as good as repair, expense not as good as moderation. However women love the power to just make it fixed by paying someone to fix it.
Women really want the king who can order it done not the craftsman who gets it done. When you put it like that its obvious.
Read More@Kloi how would you say this relates to short vs long term relationships?
@deeplydisturbed dude, this is a big part of my growth
I was never a "tool guy" when I was young. I was good at academics and athletics, but not that sort of thing.
When I was in my 20s and early 30s, I just threw money at shit that needed repairing. I could put on my spare tire and change my own oil, and that was just about all.
Once I got a couple of years into the apprenticeship for my trade, I became a lot more handy.
Over the years since, I've repaired a washing machine, a dryer, fixed a lot of other small shit around the house, and then that riding mower this past weekend.
Learning this shit was a huge departure from my comfort zone, and the knowledge has paid immense dividends.
Who let the femboy in?
Jesus, dude, grow a pair. This isn't a competition, it's shared knowledge. There's a fuck ton of undiscovered money out there to be made. There's a fuck ton more women than men on this planet. You just gotta have the balls to go out and get it.
She would have to have a good reason not to want to be like that.
AWALT is one way of putting it. Women will get away with what the hive lets them get away with. You would need to give her enough motivation to not be like that. Finding an equal trade in the SMV is integral to this. Overall it has to be an attractive offer to her long term and she needs to be someone who has a long term view to herself. Someone who is less slutty may well have a more long term view but then you still have to make her a good deal long term -offer her a future she wants to buy into and be able to deliver it.
It still might not work out. Particularly because people can develop in different ways as life goes by. But then if you have not married like you suggest and if you have done all you can to protect your wealth and future access to your kids you have done your best and won't be any more burnt than you have to be in this current social climate.
You do your honest best and whatever happens, happens.
Read MoreI am surprised I didn’t catch this sooner. Classic Alpha Widow song….
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVx8L7a3MuE&pp=ygUXYnJhbmR5IHlvdXJlIGEgZmluZSBncmw%3D
Men have begun to reevaluate the risk/reward ratios of approaching women, dating them, and even marrying them. For many men, none of these scenarios offer enough reward to compensate them for the risks.
The risk/reward ratios were different in the 50s. That was due to many factors:
- economic reality (it was easier for households to survive on a single income)
- less consumerism (modern women tend to buy non-essentials more readily than men)
- no social media (it has never been easier to see how insufferable many women are)
- gender roles (women were more inclined to accept, and even relish, the roles of homemaker and parent)
- fewer divorces (women were less inclined to initiate divorce - partly because no-fault didn't exist in most states)
- no OnlyFans (women were less willing to show their balloon knots for $9.99/month)
That's the tip of the iceberg.
Ultimately, a growing percentage of men believe dating and marriage hold less value and potential for them. Both are likely to saddle them with burdens and liabilities that aren't offset by the perceived rewards.
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