@thegap

Where should I start with TRP? Looking for a proper roadmap without all the bullshit

Hello everyone I'm 18 years old, turning 19 soon, and I'm interested in learning more about TRP.

Tbh I kind of understand what TRP is about, or at least I think I do but I still want to get the basics right and properly understand everything. I've come across a lot of posts and articles but I'm honestly pretty confused about where to start and what I should actually focus on.

I also don't want to become one of those guys who just reads about this stuff endlessly like a retard without actually applying anything to his life. I'm into self-improvement, and I want to improve myself, get better with girls, become more confident, and have that playboy type of lifestyle lowkey lol. I don't want to get overly attached to girls or end up hung up on one person for years.

There's also this one girl from years ago (my unicorn, if you know what I mean) that I still want to move on from completely. I want to get to a point where I'm not emotionally stuck on someone from my past and can move forward with my life.

So I'm looking for something practical and structured, not just a bunch of random posts to read.

Is there a proper roadmap or guide for learning TRP from the basics and actually applying the useful parts to your life? Should I start with the sidebar, a particular reading list, or something else entirely? A lot of the sidebar links don't seem to work anymore.

I'd really appreciate recommendations on where to start, what to focus on first, and what I can do in practice rather than spending months just consuming content.

I'm looking for the actual useful stuff without all the unnecessary bullshit, so any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtwiAkUj5Go

Get yourself two sheets of paper, a pen, and do the following. On the first sheet write down a list of things that you've been putting off on the back burner due to work, schooling, or just life in general starting with what you've shared with us. It doesn't matter how silly, or stupid the task or idea might be, just write it down. When you're done, take the second sheet of paper, and re-write the items from the first list starting with what you believe to be the simplest, easiest task, to the most complicated.

When you're done with the second list, keep it someplace you won't forget. The challenge once you've got the list done won't be simply accomplishing them, but not allowing yourself to be de-spirited whenever you encounter difficulty, or failure. To not let yourself be defeated. You'll spend the time to troubleshoot and diagnose the problem, resume, or start over.

As for women, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

If you otherwise need help, ask. Be discerning of any advice you're offered and never forget that there's no shortage of #books that may help you achieve your goals. Best of luck to you.

@Typo-MAGAshiv I agree with you Typo. He can still bang. I recommend that he does.

But his question was about 'spinning plates' - to me, spinning plates is about having a roster of women on speed dial, who you can call at a moments notice and say 'wanna hang?' and then you can go over for some netflix n' chill.

This is the dream for many young men, sex without committment. With a rotation of eager chics. It does happen, but if we're going to be honest, it only happens to the 0.01% of males at age 21. The sad thing is that many young men believe that if only they learn the right game, this is realistic for the average dude.

The only exception is those average men that have purchased the elite tier level access to the course that @Vermillion-Rx designed ...'How to spin plates with a roster of eager hotties as a 21 year old average dude' ($4999, finace packages available).

@TempAccount1

Are you rich, over 6"2 and handsome? This is going to be easy!!!

You're not?

Oh. Ok. This is going to be next to impossible.

Listen dude, at 21, there are maybe 0.01% of the male population that is going to be able to 'spin plates'. Life at 21 for a male is hard mode. You are going to be living off scraps for a while. You may be able to bang some chicks from time to time, that is going to be your limit, unless you are exceptional.

At this point in your life, you should be 95% focused on career, networks, and education. That is what is going to help you. Forget about game. Build yourself. Trust me, build your life. Don't waste your energies on a game that you really cannot win. I didn't say go monk mode, but really, if you are aiming to be 'spinning plates' at 21, and you are not in the top 0.01% of men, you are in for a hard ride.

things get easier as you get older, as a man (opposite for women!).

trust me on this. Build your life son.

Fun story. I knew at a company they were laying off all the Americans to outsource so... I decided to be a gangster. I probably played this song every other day. Here's one thing I did. I CAREFULLY avoided doing something to get me fired for cause. So get this, a dickhead executive said that although there was no "white male" employee groups, I was free to attend ANY one I wanted.

So I attended the women's employee group meeting.

Damn it feels good to be a gangster!

I asked a fellow Pollak to go with me and I saw the look of sheer terror on his face. So I went alone. I was the only white guy there. A white male and Asian male director was leading it. They had the cheapest ass pizza out so I grabbed 3 slices and a half bottle of diet coke and sucked it down. Then I listened.

The women were absolutely barely conscious. I mean, they could barely speak during the meeting as if they were all abused housewives or something. Absolutely astonishing.

So I then just said who I was at the meet and greet. That I didn't know where else to attend.

About 2 weeks later I got called into a surprise meeting and I knew what that meant. I was prepared and...

They were doing layoffs. I got a severance package. A GREAT one.

One of the best days of my entire life.

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