The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
Sex is a drug.
Wrap your mind around that, grasp it and fundamentally understand it.
Women are to have a have a good time.
Treat them like eating a sugar cookie.
Do not get philosophical or question the deeper meaning of them, a relationship or anything else.
Your job as a man to women is to fuck them good and be dominate.
They do everything else. They ask for a relationship, they come back if they want to.
You just gotta fuck em'.
Keep it simple stupid.
I haven't had sex since the pandemic started. It's been rough, but I've managed to check everything else in my life (gym, studies, money) except for girls. I haven't lost my confidence and I'm not shy, but when it comes to sex the idea of intimacy or one night stands scare me. The last girl I was with was my girlfriend of two years, and since then I've been in dates with girls and had fun, but when things can go sexual I always back off. I get anxious, I'm not sure I really like the girl. Right now, a girl I just met on tinder is partying and the conversation got hot so she's probably coming to my place in a few hours. The idea is very exciting and it feels like I'm finally gonna get it, but on the other hand I'm not sure if I like this girl, would I be able to maintain an erection? What about post nut clarity? I just have so many questions, I literally feel like a virgin again. Username does not checkout lol.Read More
I think i made a mistake.
I'm with this girl for like 7 months now and she told me weeks ago that she was going to take one important exam for her in carreer ways (shes trying to be a judge) in another city. The problem is that she was planning to rent an airbnb with a guy friend that would try it too to stay in the weekend of the exam. At first, i didnt mind it at all. I've built a strong dominant leading in this relationship with her so it didnt bothered me in the time she said.
It kind of changed in my mind because i started to realize how bad it sounded and i planned to tell her that i wasnt ok with all this about a week ago. So, i invited her to my place as usual but i had to reschedule for 2 hours later than we agreed to meet up and she got really upset because i just was able to tell her about that after she was already dressed up and stuff
So we argued via text. She complained that i always do things like cancelling dates or being late because of my studies and i stepped my feet down about what was priority to me. I kept answering her untill the conversation was reasonable but when she started with ironic shit i just ignored her.
That no-talking lasted 8 days, and she went into the trip and did the exam, without i having a chance to turn this trip a matter of discussion
Yesterday she sent me a message saying things like how she was upset about all this, that she doesnt get any reciprocate in our relationship and that she was all the time giving in for my schedule and wills while i dont do the same for her.
The point is that i blurred all the exam importance and just keep red flaging in my mind:
"You guys fight and she didnt seek to reconcile before she travelled with a guy friend on the weekend to another city."
In my mind she was shit-testing me to see if i would not give in the no-talking due some insecurity of my part.
I'm confused right now about how to procceed. What you guys think? (bad english, it isnt my first language)Read More