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I haven't used old since 2023
It got so bad I gave up after that
@Redpillray go look at @femalenatured on X or read his substack, he is very good at OLD
For some reason, 3 different toilet paper brands are trying to outspend each other on Youtube ads right now. High pitched child and pixie character voices REALLY work hard against making these tolerable. And, like virtually every other ad, their effect on my buying choices is NIL.
@Typo-MAGAshiv appreciate the answer. Posting on the forum now.
@Redpillray the only regular user here on trp.red whom I know has used OLD recently and successfully is Vermy. I haven't used OLD since 2004, and it was awesome back then.
You might try asking at the askTRP forum, but be mindful of the rules there including the one to attempt to answer your own question.
Used to TONS of likes and matches on bumble 2-3 years ago, but now? Nothing. Same situation w Hinge....
...Used the same pics and prompts but no traction.
Maybe that's the issue? Are there dates stamped on the photos, so the women know they're out of date?
maybe the algo is throttling my profile.
From what I've heard, that's a distinct possibility. Maybe try creating new accounts?
OP, you’re already aware of your internal dialog being negative, and not always trusting the newer you. I feel ya, I’m the same way sometimes. It’s good you are aware and @Typo-MAGAshiv is right on about your self talk. It sounds like in some ways, you ascended since your younger days.
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I’d like to add another angle here. She was definitely thirsting for you, but she actually has bad lady game herself. That stuff on the boat and talking about the army guy strikes me as not knowing how to get the man she really wants.
It’s one thing to invite “your competition” to the boat, but that was with her own family. Even if she really is a slut, she won’t be able to get piped down in front of her family.
And in general, there’s a lot of trying to make you jealous before the two of you have done anything. Which is another poor game tactic. Jealousy game usually doesn’t work if there isn’t any romantic history between the two of you; it’s actually a sign of disinterest. Same thing with the talking about Tinder army guy. As a woman, it’s bad game to (1) say you’re on Tinder, (2) talking about banging other men in front of the man you want, and (3) portray yourself as a slut, explicitly.
She very likely is a slut, but this all strikes me as a chick who has been hot her whole life, so she never got punished for poor lady game.
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On a side note, she’s slightly older than you, right? So early to mid 30s? Remember, girls who have not managed to get married by then are usually mentally cooked somehow.
Read More12h ago Ask TRP Forum
Any resource on pics for your dating profile?
Used to get TONS of likes and matches on bumble 2-3 years ago, but now? Nothing. Same situation w Hinge.
The meta’s changed quite a bit over the past few years it seems or maybe the algo is throttling my profile.
Used the same pics and prompts but no traction. Even after a few weeks of running it. Premium membership on both.
Just need a good guide that can give me some pointers to get cooking. Already r/theredpill, but couldn’t find anything cause it was all posts from when I was actually getting traction.
Any recently written guide/video/etc. from someone you’re sure knows what they are talking about will work.
Thanks.
Read MoreI don't see why this guide wouldn't still work:
At this point you're playing in her field and whatever you say will make you seem jealous in her eyes. She's mindlocked on the idea of making you jealous so laughing off, ignoring it or A&A won't change the outcome.
She had guys before you, she will have guys after you're gone and if she managed to squeeze one quick fuck in the meantime makes no real difference.
And lastly, she got mad drunk at your house, I'm sure 2 drinks in she was getting impatient that you weren't fucking her.
For posterity, I'll copy and paste the relevant portion of my reply to you on the trp.red side of the site:
Used to TONS of likes and matches on bumble 2-3 years ago, but now? Nothing. Same situation w Hinge....
...Used the same pics and prompts but no traction.
Maybe that's the issue? Are there dates stamped on the photos, so the women know they're out of date?
maybe the algo is throttling my profile.
From what I've heard, that's a distinct possibility. Maybe try creating new accounts?
