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This reinforces my hatred for AI, and for the people who rely too heavily on it. Worth a listen:
Reading through your OP and your subsequent replies to various comments has led me to conclude:
1) you are not ready for an LTR or marriage. This is fine, as it should not be your goal anyway. I've said so to other men on this site multiple times, and I should probably make a standalone post about it. From what you've said, and if it's all true, you should be able to spin plates very easily. I recommend you do that. If one denies you, fuck a different one. True abundance.
2) even if you were ready, she is unworthy of your commitment. That's also fine. Women worthy of commitment are few and far between. A woman's behavior does not improve AFTER marriage! Right now? Before you and her have exchanged vows and gotten the state involved in your business? That's her best behavior. She's going to get worse. Every man on this site who has ever been married will back me up on this.
3) if you want a path to US citizenship or a green card or whatever, find s different one. She's going to make your life suck, and being here won't be worth what she puts you through.
Read More6h ago 2026-04-15 08:32:15 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
So....she is swimming around the hook up world, but she doens't want to put out??
what could possibly go wrong?
2h ago Ask TRP Forum
Denial of sex by ex after one hookup
So i broke up with my ex 2 months ago. I hooked up with other girls but I didnt move on from her. 2 weeks ago we started talking again. She said she doesn’t want to get back in relationship, ans stay as friends. I played along. Few days later she booty calls me and I go. After that she said we shouldn’t have sex and remain friends. How to get her back as fwb or get her hooked again as she was before breakup.
6h ago 2026-04-15 08:44:39 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
This post fits the time line of attention whores. When they are younger they can get quite a lot of A&V from men, just by putting out. That dries up pretty quick.
To replace the A&V they used to get from men, they pivot to creating content which is basically a desperate pity party. Men no longer notice her BUT she can still get likes and comments from other fems.
The click bait of this kind of women is that she is counting on other women say 'but you're so beautiful!!!' any man would be just so lucky to have you!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they are intimidated by your extreme beauty!!!!!!!!!!!!
Even AI understands married blue pill hell. Check out this AI country song. AI knows this is where the trad con man country music loves to portray ends up.
Commitment. That's it 'mam. Only needs a one word answer.
You have to put enough in that he decides its worth putting enough in too. Sex and nice personality seem to do it for almost every man on the planet. If you don't want to put out straight off its OK, you can still get a lot of guys if you are just nice to them. But you do have to be nice and be committed to being nice and make sure he knows you are serious about wanting sex in due course. Then quite a lot of guys will wait for you to put out. If they do, you better fuck well when the time comes. For most men "well" can be achieved by enthusiasm alone. Actual skill is not essential. But remember, no one wants to wait to be disappointed.
Its that simple.
Most likely she wanted to check she still has you on the hook when she was feeling low.
Solution friendly but minimal contact, mostly as replies, the odd breadcrumbing if you fancy. May booty call you again if she is not sure she has you, if she is going through a dry spell, if she has had a knock to her confidence. Simp out and beg and she will "know" in her mind that she was right to run.
Mostly copy pasted from another post.
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Re-read what you wrote. Imagine a close, male friend of yours was in this exact situation. And that he asked you for advice.
What would you tell him to do with this woman? If he told you that he was trying to get back with his ex, would you tell him that’s a good idea? Bad?
Take that answer, and apply it to yourself.
