@Typo-MAGAshiv you and @Notorious are both right - each additional partner does damage a woman's ability to pair bond, BUT they are not aware of that. In fact, if you brought up that subject you would be roundly shat on by any women. Women never accept any whif of any idea that anything about them (or womankind in general) might have anything at all to do with the modern dating disaster.

It is all because of men being so useless, refusing to man-up and simultaneously being loser computer game playing incels and also dominant patriarchs that are supressing all the waymens.

@destraht

You didn't even try to hide the fact that you're a Russian shill. No analysis critiquing both sides, no thoughtful discussion.

Why type all those words? You could have easily just written

Russia good, West + Ukraine bad hurr durr

Touch grass comrade.

@Typo-MAGAshiv

Every sexual partner a woman has, decreases her future ability to bond with and be satisfied with future men.

Yes, you and I are well aware of that, but women don't give a shit. They only care about how they feel in the moment. They feel that its better to date someone with benefits than have ONS every weekend.

If men had the option to have ONS every weekend the way women do, dating would be obsolete.

@Notorious they were behaving in such a way that that was the most diplomatic way to rid myself of both of them while looking like the good guy without developing contempt

@Vermillion-Rx

The only fair trade here is that you're cutting both out of your life.

@Typo-MAGAshiv usually praising. me personally I've never had the thought of "hey let me bring my ex into this conversation" but maybe I'm the weird one.

What's even more interesting is this girl always tells me

"I liked him so I dated him but I knew we wouldn't last."

That's the difference between guys and girls...girls don't have much to lose in dating someone they aren't sure about since they receive a lot of benefits, but for guys to go exclusive with a girl its the polar opposite.

@Typo-MAGAshiv you’re absolutely right. I was interested sexually in her, but the more I got to know her the less attracted I was. She’s also my classmate, and I don’t want to shit where I eat.

My class gossips a lot (med school is just like high school) so I’ll stick to banging chicks outside my circle.

@Notorious

Best reply whenever a girl brings up her ex-boyfriends, go:

1. Away

2. Fuck other women

3. Balls deep when she realizes you don't play that shit and hops in your bed

Best reply whenever a girl brings up her ex-boyfriends, go: