@Lone_Ranger naw, @woodsmoke nailed the duality of it, while your grasp is one-dimensional.

While you are correct in that actions are far more important than words, and that a wise man's decisions will be based on this woman's actions rather than her words, her words do reflect something.

She does want the commitment.

But she doesn't want it badly enough to abandon her slutty habits that she's fucked her way into.

This is illustrative of how Rollo always says that women frequently exist in a consistent state of cognitive dissonance. And their brains are adapted to be comfortable with it!

Much like a heroine or meth junkie who really wants to clean up, but just can't, sluts like her are Chaddicts.

Or as @woodsmoke said earlier (and I think this is another one we stole from @loneliness-inc (o brother where art thou!)):

she wants fried ice!

@moorekom even though she is (supposedly) a virgin who has never even been on a date, she fits both rule 5 and the "strong, independent woman" flair.

Rule 5 in its entirety, with the words/clauses relevant to the OP in bold:

Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy".

They don't have to be promiscuous; the word "or" is the coordinating conjunction of the second half of rule 5, not "and". They also don't have to have kids, for example.

Anyone saying we're being unduly harsh has their White Knight instinct kicking in, just like when @loneliness-inc originally posted his first post featuring Dr. Macavoy (weird - my sticky comment is still stickied but isn't at the top).

@polishknight @lurkerhasarisen Regarding the whole "strict prohibitions against picking on widows" thing: there was one notable exception, Dr. Kerry Kerr McAvoy, PhD, supposed "Christian", even more supposed "relationship expert", and widow.

Check out my stickied comment at @loneliness-inc's original post about her. His post really brought commenters' normally-suppressed white knight instincts out. Then check out these three posts about her from @aldabruzzo one, two, and three. Aldy deleted his reddit account back when he, @DeeplyDisturbed, and I all got permanently suspended from reddit within an hour or so of each other, which made his posts difficult to find on reddit. TheRedArchive comes through!

Just finding these again took a good chunk of my free time, so I didn't get to give them a thorough re-reading yet. I'll do that later for the nostalgia!

CC: @lurkerhasarisen @Vermillion-Rx