@mattyanon HR hath no pretext like a woman scorned.
@MobusBobus Don't fucking do it.
we just happen to work in the same building/space
You said "in my office".
You literally have women from another company in your office?
Look, don't do it. Even if you really are just sharing an office, it's going to be very awkward when it ends. And you always have to plan for when it ends.
Even if you don't value your job - the fact that you share an office and she has to regularly see you motivates her to run revenge on you after the relationship ends, in order to get rid of you, because of the awkwardness.
This is how women operate. When the relationship ends, if you are still around there is a 90% chance she will try to get rid of you or destroy you, because at that point you are an emotional threat to her.
She is more likely to make false claims against you if she has a reason or benefit from doing so.
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I'm a really young guy (20) and there are a few attractive older women (mid-20s- early 30s) in my office. I'm also an attractive guy, and I've had some small talk here and there, and I've caught the occasional glance. The problem is, I'm not sure how to properly run a game on them.
I should also mention that I don't work with any of these women or their company; we just happen to work in the same building/space.
Study the book, watch for signs of interest, and make your moves accordingly. If you're lucky, you'll be the youngest geldling in their stable.
Somebody probably sneaked behind ChadGPT and cut his throat mid-answer
Fall of Rome - "My Tolerance"
Lyrics
If you're feeling fem, Don't do something major, You know in the end, You'll always be male. So, when you're in doubt, Of your assigned gender, Take a look a bit south, And notice what's there.
I'm sorry, but I'm just not going to give you your way, I know it's not what clown world is demanding of me, But if you push a little more I'll make sure that you see, My tolerance, My tolerance is thin
When you raise your voice, And say I've misgendered, You know what I'll do? I'm gonna do it again, Sometimes when you shout, I doubt you intend it, Your true form comes out, An unmistakable man
I'm sorry, but I'm just not going to give you your way, I know it's not what clown world is demanding of me, But if you push a little more I'll make sure that you see, My tolerance, My tolerance…
I'm sorry, but I'm just not in the mood to fake it today, I know that's awfully insensitive of me, But if you keep on pushing me I'll make sure that you see, My tolerance, My tolerance is thin
I tell ya, Need to tell ya, Gotta tell ya, I've gotta tell ya
I'm sorry, but I'm just not going to give you your way, I know it's not what clown world is demanding of me, But if you push a little more I'll make sure that you see, My tolerance, My tolerance…
I'm sorry, but I'm just not in the mood to fake it today, I know that's awfully insensitive of me, But if you keep on pushing me I'll make sure that you see, My tolerance, My tolerance is thin, It's thin, So thin
#2023 #FallofRome #MyTolerance #Parody #Satire #Song #Lyrics #80s #Electro
Read MoreValid reasons for LTR to decline sex?
Yesterday my LTR declined sex for the first time. We were at her place, she cooked dinner for me, was submissive and otherwise behaving well. We moved into the bedroom, started doing foreplay, but after I got her bra off she said she didn’t want to do it tonight. She said that her head and body ached, that she hadn’t showered and that she had to get up early. I didn’t react emotionally but got up and left. At the door she asked me if I was mad, but I told her no, kissed her good night, and told her to go to sleep and to get her chores done tomorrow morning because I’ll check.
Her period was coming up and she has some exams which she’s worried about, and just seems on edge lately. In fact, I did see her taking Advil due to premenstrual cramps in the days leading up to this. She’s been combative with her roommates, and she appears to be trying to hold it together for my sake when I’m around. She tests me sometimes but I shut that shit down and she goes back to behaving.
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but I also don’t want this to become a trend. I’ve read through other posts regarding this issue and users warn about “valid” denials of sex (due to period, etc) being a slippery slope leading to invalid denials and using sex for manipulation.
She’s out of her prime (26) and she knows that I have other options on standby. I believe my SMV is 1 or 2 points higher than hers, and the margin is increasing as time goes by.
She sent me a good morning text today, reiterating the period as the issue. I believe I should respond warmly (so avoid no contact), as she already has insecurity issues, but maybe give it a week before I see her again.
What would you suggest?
Edit: I have access to her phone and geolocation.
When one plate brakes it's best to not bother gluing it together in some attempt to fix it. Better to accept the loss, clean up the mess as best you can, throw the broken plate away, and get another.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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