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@Vermillion-Rx I think women are going backwards. They’re not becoming blue pilled, but they’re getting further from understanding the system dynamics it seems. I think the politicization of dating and gender has led to more sloganistic thinking - phrases become like spells, incanted to end uncomfortable lines of logic such as “he’s avoidant.”
I’ve been mulling the same problem when I wake up in the mornings and I’m starting to go in circles.
I want to have kids. My parents sacrificed like hell for me, I can’t repay it to them, so I gotta pay it forward, kids is basically plan A for that. Very human.
I’m 5’9” in the west, I know I don’t have it bad, but my height is still my largest single deficiency in the eyes of the opposite sex, and interestingly, it’s been growing as a deficiency more and more year by year. I assume this trend will continue, and women will prioritize height more and more over time - esp as the average height rises.
So where I’m getting caught up is in whether I should consider partners where our kids will be shorter than me…
From this online calculator: www.webmd.com/children/healthtool-kids-height-predictor
Mother height - predicted son height with me:
- 5’0 -> 5’7
- 5’3 -> 5’9
- 5’6 -> 5’10
Presumably to be 5’9 in 20 years with inflation means you’ve gotta be 5’10+. But short women like me much more than average or tall for obvious reasons - when a short woman and I are in private, my relative height difference is enough to activate whatever animal brain structures get off on that. But wouldn’t it be selfish to prioritize the easier relationship, and send out a couple of 5’7” sons to do battle in the dating market of 2045?
Read MoreA top tip for all you spergs - just wear a wedding ring.
Woman claims special rights because "I'm attractive". Hilarity ensues.
www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/1c5ftf9/lady_thinks_shes_disrespected_because_shes/
@OPStolen Answer me this: why are you trying to get her number?
Sounds like you are trying to pivot as soon as you can, to get out of the IRL interaction and into the digital realm.
if so, you're a number hunter. You're there to waste her time, and she'll waste your time.
Answer me this: what makes you think she wants to spend time with you? Do you have any kind of rapport? Why can't you continue your convo IRL? What is it that makes you want to pivot to digital so soon?
Is it because you are anxious and nervy in an IRL interaction?
Let me give it to you bluntly - if you cannot elicit any interest from her in IRL, you sure as hell will not be able to do so after the pivot to digital.
Never ask for numbers. Be reluctant to accept them. Keep talking in IRL, and look for IoI's. If there are none, then walk away in a friendly way. Learn to read the signals. Don't let the autism win
Read MoreMegan Fox has PSA for all women: her 'relationship' didn't work, therefore nobody will be able to have a relationship. Side note: She cannot understand how a full body tatted drug addict self described 'bad boy' who constantly cheated on her didn't seem to lead to relationship success. The mysteries of life just keep piling up.
@OPStolen she'll volunteer the info herself if it's necessary. Don't ask.
@OPStolen No, don't ask this upfront. Look for genuine IOIs and act upon these decisively. Asking if she has a boyfriend first is like asking her permission for you to ask her out, which despite what Feminists claim, is NOT considered attractive or "good" by women.
Any woman who has a boyfriend that matters will volunteer that information to you the moment you ask. When they do, just take a no big deal approach so the situation doesn't linger in a socially awkward place. If you play it cool, she may mention her single friend next.