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No. Fuck her and fuck that.
First of all, I DO know how to dance. That is a young man’s game. I dance at weddings and parties once every few years. At my age, if I am out Salsa dancing on the regular, it would be a HUGE red flag.
And..
Flip this script…
Imagine I like going to strip clubs. Would you say to her “Hey, just go to the strip club with him. Learn how to strip and get a job there. That will make him feel like you want him”
No. You would not say that. The first thing most women would say is
“HEY! THAT'S NOT THE SAME THING!”
Yes. Yes it is exactly the same FUCKING THING!
@Mate1212 I don't like dancing either
Just avoid women who are part of that scene
@Hamzter there are additional tools you can use, like amused mastery, pressure flip, fogging, etc
But A&A is best and easiest
@deeplydisturbed dude what if your girl would like to dance with you, or visit a Salsa class with you, but you can't.
I don't like dancing. I don't know how to dance and IMO it's gay.
Addendum: look over the conversations on this website. There are several threads that serve as examples of friendly ball-busting.
www.trp.red/feed/status/211177
www.trp.red/feed/status/126113
www.trp.red/feed/status/224371
There are also threads that serve as examples of how not to respond to this:
www.trp.red/feed/status/213702
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@Hamzter that reads more like friendly ball-busting than outright disrespect.
Have you read up on dealing with shit tests? A lot of those methods for dealing with women's shit tests also work within friendly ball-busting among guys.
My favorite go-to is Agree & Amplify.
Buddy: you look like Mr. Bean.
You: good! I hope to have his amount of money soon, too.
Not a great response, but better than silently seething. You get the idea.
Buddy: Stop eating so much you ain't gaining
You: damn, guess I'd better eat even more! Hey, are you going to finish your potatoes?
The key is to be playful. Show that you take neither yourself nor their bullshit seriously.
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youtu.be/Rd9XJUfGlQ8
Just what I was saying for at least a year.
Good strategy is to go 5x to one place and see who is coming min 4outof5 times. If they also dance well - avoid.
If they don't dance well have a go at it.
