@lambOfGod

Bitch being cold

So I had this plate for almost 2 months. First month, sex was great, made her cum and squirt countless time with my cock. She's been texting me good morning every day since we met up and we agreed to date exclusively to see where this goes.

For the last 2 weeks, this bitch started to tone herself down on the affection and excitement she's been offering me and always used to be very sexual with me on all media, including when we met up.

She rarely tells me anything sexually related and she has stopped initiating sex (she used to tell me how horny she was and that I should come over) and when I tell her something sexual, she just giggles or sends some bitch ass emojis.

My senses are on alert since I believe this bitch is seeing another fag. So I've started building up on leads, I have 2 girls I'm supposed to see this week behind her back. On the weekends if she doesn't come up with a proposal to come over or to see each other (because I'm the only one who initiated until now and I want to see if she does this) I'll go salsa dancing.

This bitch wants to text with me a lot, but I don't like this, since I want to fucking see her but I want to see if she can show interest by fucking initiating for once (she actually already did this in the past by telling me to come over or that we should see each other).

I started to withdraw my attention through texting and gone cold and she asked me what's wrong and why am I being cold. I told her I am not that talkative through texts. She responded by saying "is this a subtle way to tell me this because we haven't seen each other this week?". So this fucking bitch knows what's up but she does not want to act on it and see me. I went cold on her responding with "There are alternative ways to texting" she said "Ok" and I left her on read.

I am planning to not contact her until she either calls me or asks to see me. You have to understand that this bitch went from 24/7 horny sex to cold ass shit. So my bells instantly went on high alert.

I've already planned an aggressive hunt for girls until the end of the week by going out and OLD, to keep my mind off of her, fuck something else cause I have fucking needs, and build some other plates.

Am I fucking insane, clingy or controlling?

Honestly, if you haven't been physically violent with this chick, I'd just as soon write you off as just some idiot with one-itis and delusions of self worth. Six weeks with you is all this girl needed to lose her interest. Reads like you took it very poorly when you probably should've backed off and resumed dating other girls instead. As you plan to stop contacting her, it's probably for the best. Neither of you lose anything if you go your separate ways. It frees you to spend time on other people, things, and yourself.

In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@holiday

He has been DNA tested. That's what got me into this mess. I cut contact during the pregnancy and wasn't there for the birth, telling her I didn't want anything to do with her until the paternity test was done. This might normally make sense, but she was my first girlfriend from my teens who dumped me a few years ago, and I didn't do that because I genuinely doubted paternity - I was 99.9% sure the child was mine - I did it from some fucked up form of revenge, justified in my mind at the time for how she left me back when I was young. Now, we have been back together for 5 months, living together for 4.

Whoa... Ow... Well, you're still young and I fully expect you will do even dumber $#it in the years ahead, but I won't lie to you. That's definitely a darker summary than I'd otherwise have expected and not something I'd have recommended you do if you'd come to us sooner, but what's done is done.

The only way this could be more awkward, is if you two got married and she kept throwing it in your face how you shunned her when she was pregnant with your son every time you got into an argument. Regardless, make an effort to study the book, touch base with the married red pill guys and check out what they've written. Give yourself time to scrutinize and process all the information about to come your way. Try to make it a priority to make the best decisions that offer the best positive long term outcome for everyone involved in this situation.

@Travis1051

With GF for nearly 3 year - thinking about getting other girls

Hey, so I am a 30 year old male, with my own house a good job etc. would say lookwise 7/10 but got some game. I have been with my GF for nearly 3 years (she was 25 at time, now is 28 years old). Anyway met her when i was buying food, got number, date and etc, At that time I was packing and starting to move to a new city, on our second date we had sex. And after that i told her something like: "I am not looking for anything serious, since I am moving and wont know what will be in future". She started crying and told me she loved me and so on so I got weak and went into an LTR (also was curious about LTRs, to know if its even worht it - wasnt in an LTR with burning desire, so I wanted to find out). Anyway she helps me move and so on, we fuck , does anal, rimming, watches lesbian porn with me. Has the burning desire still, does nearly 99% things, but no threesomes (which I want).

Sometimes she mentioned she wants kids, I didnt took it seriously. I wasnt sure if I wanted so i say I didnt know yet if I want to. By the way I had vasectomy (because of crazy ex-gf, have sperm in sperm bank If iwant kids in future. Vasectomy was best decision i made, saves money, can sleep that i am 100% protected, no late menstruation bullshit from her). Fast forward to now, she mentions kids every week (has probably the baby fever, baby rabbies or how you call it) it pisses me off since i am finding out i cant stand kids right now. Also her biological clock is ticking 28 year now ( i had some feeling that age would be problem and she would pressure me or her sister, family ). I am 30 and not ready mentally for it, maybe when I am 40 years old. Also even if i had kids there is a high chance they would be crippled (deaf - since both my parens are born deaf, I am heatlhy and normal).

I am finding out now, I also desire other women... noticing their smiles and eyes on me, dont know how long can I keep myself in control without going in and trying to fuck them. Wanna try asian, black... and 18 year old women... Also i want to become enterprenuer and in 10 years to be a milionare, so dont have to work. My priority is money than her and some future kid.

My GF loves me, wants more sex than I want lol, always initiates first. She calls me her master sometimes, and her best choice. She says that she doesnt deserve me, and that i can do better than her.

I know when in pair , one want children and the other doest want - that one of them will become resentfull to the other: "bla bla you didnt want children thats why i am unhappy", "

For 26 years of my live I was just surviving... (getting my house, problems, mental health, fitness heatlh, ED, sometime suicide thoughts) Now i want to just chill and fuck. A month ago, i just suddenly woke up in the morning and was happy that i dont have children and i am not married.

I am torn inside It just pains me to thinking about leaving her, the pain it would cause her. , I dont know the solution and what should i do.

I had some ideas that might solve it... 1) make her a cuckquean - which would probably solve my problem me wanting to fuck other women, (would take time and patience (have some guidebook), dont know if i have it though). Also still no kids. 2) force her into threesome and cuckqueaning - she told me that she doesnt want to do a threesome, but if it meant she would lose me if she didnt do it then she would do it, to not lose me. Dont know if this would work and she would become hatefull. 3) cheat on her, later she would find out and leave. Or stay and later become hatefull. 4) tell her how i feel about all this - dont think she would leave but would become hatefull cuz of me not wanting kids.

BTW Before this GF I had short term ex-gf before ( 3 months lasted , I knew she had to go cuz of her attiduted, so i left her) still even when i knew i would leave her, i still cried like a bitch after leaving her. Not because of her character, but cuz i was used to everyday contact of her and sleeping with her. Because at that time i yearned for physical touch, sex and so on. After leaving her and 3 months later i got myself together back.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Regardless of what choice you make, you don't need our permission or approval.

@brownpride1488

She slept with another guy when we were on a break

Long story short, she was travelling out of country for a couple of months and found out I was messing around with other women. We fought over the phone, made up, but fought again a few days later and stopped talking for two weeks. Called her again, she said she thought we’re not in a relationship anymore and that we can discuss it after she comes back. A month passes, she’s back home, we get back together. She says she hasn’t been with anyone after me and so we became very serious, eventually plan for a future together. This was many months ago. Today I found out she actually did fuck a guy during those two weeks. I did tell her when we first started dating that I won’t take her back if she ever slept with anyone other than me. What should I do with her? I know that I can’t in good conscience ever be serious with this chick anymore, but she is very submissive, a fantastic fuck, good conversationalist and intelligent. I’m considering the following options: 1) break up immediately, 2) tell her I forgive her and nothing changed but actually look for a replacement while still fucking her, 3) tell her that we can still be together but from now on I’ll be seeing other women, while she still has to be exclusive with me. I imagine she will lose any respect for me if I continue as if nothing happened. Her main point is that she thought we were done and never getting back together, but after that last call after the two weeks and after fucking that guy she realized that “she still loves me” and didn’t fuck anybody else for that last month, which of course she could be fucking dozens of guys because she also had tinder installed and claims to have only used it to get attention.

Study the book and take this as a lesson learned in why you don't take ex's back. You two will always remember the discordant things that prompted you to end things. Sure, you can bang from time to time, as you both feel inclined, but whatever the relationship was, will never be again. She had her chance and blew it. Move on.

@Kragzen

How do you get over ex Marrying?

I saw the girl who was my only semi long-term relationship got married after a year of dating.

I cared about her a lot, more than a should of though at least part of that was due to her being one of the few women actually liked me(for a while anyway).

It's kind of fucked me up.

The only way to get over your ex's is to live your life understanding that a woman's role in your life is to be a companion, not the priority mission. That you allowed yourself to remain aware of goings on in her life while living yours after the breakup is messed up in a masochistic way. When you split with someone, whether they cut ties with you, or you cut ties with them, you should at some point accept that it's over and move on with your life. That's not something you can easily do if you keep things that she gave you around your home, or take her phone calls. Even harder to do if she's still on your social media contacts. Doubly so, if you didn't drop any of her friends from your contacts when the relationship ended.

She moved on a while ago, it's long overdue you do the same.

After you've taken the time to remove those reminders from your life, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.