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Most people shoot their shot until something sticks.
Well i've been doing that to but nothing has stuck so it makes me feel like somethings wrong with me.
Do you do anything remotely cool like sports or guitar or some skill that anyone would respect? Or do you just coast by on the internet, anime and video games
I mean like i stated in a previous comment i have a few hobbies im passionate about, like motorbiking, boxing, calisthenics etc.
most people have
Most people shoot their shot until something sticks.
And i feel unattractive because I guess I'm not interesting enough or charismatic enough to have people want to be around me and engage with me
So do fun interesting shit and become a fun interesting person. Have something to offer people. What skills or value do you bring? Or do you just wallow in despair all day?
Do you do anything remotely cool like sports or guitar or some skill that anyone would respect? Or do you just coast by on the internet, anime and video games
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Stop bitching and practice. Most men did not have TRP when they tried. They just went for a kiss or asked a girl out and she said yes.
Stop bitching and moaning. The only men who get results are men who take action.
It is all in your head. You don't want to believe otherwise and that's you're own damned fault.
You're 101% in the category of spergs that don't believe in the process other experienced men are telling you and you just solipstically masturbate to your own bullshit instead of just doing what men who fuck say to do
But even by redpill theories it says women are only attracted to the top men. So how am i supposed to not compare myself to that
Stop taking these "theories" in such black and white dude. You're definitely sperging hard
TRP SAID THIS GUYS, I MUST BELIEVE IT'S 100% THIS OR THAT
dude seriously you're destroying your own journey having absolutely no sense of nuance. It's all black and white for you.
Use common sense dude, do you see 95% of women with the "top men" no. C'mon dude. Start thinking
what do I need to do IRL to fix my self esteem
Try to close and see that the sky doesn't fall down and that some girls will say yes.
Srsly dude the more you try to find some inner psychological bullshit closure the longer it's going to take for you to actually develop any self esteem
You're embarking on a sheer bullshit inner journey that will result in worse closing skills
I know your going to say it's all in my head or that nobody really cares that much about anyone or something like that but idk it just sucks. It doesn't feel that way especially when i see the effort other people put in to their relationships/friendships
@Kloi I feel like 95% of people my age already have experience and i feel left out/behind. It's not like everyone is some slayer but i mean most people have been in relationships and at least done some stuff with a girl by the time they graduate university.
And i feel unattractive because I guess I'm not interesting enough or charismatic enough to have people want to be around me and engage with me. Like i could get some half assed invitations to going out but then people never follow up or if I do end up going it feels like i'm not really there and just observing from the outside. It feels like people are either inviting me out of pity or im basically inviting myself. Its hard to explain but i never felt like i belong or actually wanted by anyone.