@Kevin

Random Hate from people in public.

Anyone get random hate from women/black people? Making fun of my height and trying to make fun of my dick size randomly.

This is the stupidest question I've ever asked. I don't know why it keeps happening.

Is it because i'm a handsome white dude?

I feel like low-quality women are shit testing me and self-hating black men are jealous at a white boi.

Anyone else have this?

Sluts, whores, and gamma males will definitely mock, belittle, and deride others. If you want to better understand them, by all means do so, but until you do it's best to ignore them and move on. Respond as you see fit only if they present themselves as a clear threat. As you claim that they advertise their presence unprovoked it makes your job in identifying them that much easier. Best of luck to you.

@Hamza99

How to handle disrespect from narcissistic single mother?

Can’t cut contact cause she supports me financially. I live away from her, but in the same city. She is the most unbearable person I have to deal with. Typical AWALT example. Failed marriage with my irresponsible father(I wonder why she stayed with him for 15 years. Hmmm.) Blames my “supposed” father for everything that went wrong in her/my older sister’s life. Always compares me to him. She is getting fatter and uglier by the year. ZERO accountability. I have tried to reason and have honest conversations with her, but to ABSOLUTELY no avail. Whether about her mental health, physical health, boundaries, her fuck ups with how she brought me up (or lack there of).

My main issue here is that she wants me to be her bitch. She says shit like “It’s not manhood to say curse words, it doesn’t make you more of a men.” (Yet she respected the guy who treated her like shit and was paying the bills/everything instead of him) She blames me for getting angry at her stupidity, giving me false information, blatant lies. She’s the most undependable person when it comes to information. She’d rather make shit up than tell the truth or say she doesn’t know.

She never got “payback” or got her “justice” from my father, so she just projects everything on me. I am the only male in the family basically, with two older, as you would expect, whore sister, who got princess treatment from my mother all their lives. They created this “us vs him(me) mentality as I got tired of all their shit. Sister’s literally abused me all my life, until I cut all contact with them. So they have this pact mentality against their own brother/son.

How to deal with a narcissistic mother who tries to bitch me up by ridiculing me, disrespecting me in private and in public, tries to teach me about masculinity as a failed mother with two failed marriages and half a dozen failed relationships(that I know of), favors her two girls over me, oblivious to her shortcomings and toxic behavior?

Thank you.

This will teach you how to deal with narcissists. Outside of that, it's best that when you come cross other narcissists in the future, you keep your mouth shut, and get as far away from them as fast as possible. Fortunately, you're half-way there. Unfortunately, the problem now isn't that your mother's a fat narcissist, but that your continued financial dependence on your mother forces you to put up with her belittlement and ridicule of your shortcomings.

Right now, focus on becoming financially independent. Even a part-time minimum wage job will help you to slowly build the savings needed to achieve that goal. If you live in a country that offers job, vocation, or career training programs, look to enroll yourself in them as well, so you can gain the knowledge and skills to generate a better income. Best of luck to you.

@Red_dead

How does Onlyfans affect the Sexual Marketplace?

I'm kind of curious about people's thoughts on only fans, I was rereading the misandry bubble and it got me thinking. Porn overall isn't necessarily bad for us since most men will flock to it as easy comfort, leaving more women available. But only fans is different in that now even fairly lazy women can more than support themselves and their lavish lifestyles based on onlyfans income.

Of course, this is assuming they manage their money well. But for the ones who are making 6figs plus now they don't need as much resources from men, and expect an even higher standard, especially with increased validation. On the other hand I'm sure a lot of these women aren't thinking about the future when they get old and their subs slow and now no man will marry them.

Will it be a net negative or positive to Men, and when I say Men I mean Red Pilled ones? I've already seen the negative effects on the majority.

My only thought is that Onlyfans, and similar websites, exist simply as money laundering fronts for intelligence agencies and international organized crime while masquerading as a crowdfunded amateur porn site. The majority of people trying to make money through it are morons too stupid to understand that they'll never get rich that way let alone make enough for more than bus fare. The people who're receiving big time cash are actors working for intelligence agencies and organized crime groups using the site as a means through which they can discretely launder and transmit money around the world. At this point, anyone who believes otherwise shouldn't be mocked and derided, but pitied.

@itiswhatitis

Am I being a dumbass letting LTR meet up with colleagues?

So me and this girl started dating like 6 months ago and its been going really well. Shes smart, body count of 3, zero social media (she has like a fake insta account for memes), she earns triple what I make (she went to business school and works as an IB now) so I know she aint in it for the money. The only problem I have, and tbf idk if this is exclusive to her but rather most girls nowadays, she has a shit ton of dude coworkers… and dudes she met in business school. I get that she needs to keep up her network for career purposes but every couple of months when one of these dudes is in her city, they go for like coffee at most (never dinner, I made that clear).

Now im not one to mateguard because if she does want to cheat, she’ll do it and I wont be able to do anything about it and I have a big fucking ego (working on lowering it down) so I couldnt give two shits about the dudes she hangs out with, threat wise. As I said, if she wants to branch swing, she gonna do that.

I come from a conservative culture where a non-single woman can not hang out with another dude (Info: dudes she hangs out with arent single, theyre all married or have girlfriends) and it is deemed disrespectful… Am I being a dumbass here? Or Am I right in feeling annoyed about this? How do I mentally come to terms with it?

It reads like you've got one-itis, especially if you believe she's only been with three men. If she's in truth your wife, then you might want to consider hiring a private investigator to shadow her before you make any decisions on this matter. If she's just some chick you're dating, you're otherwise not exclusive with each other, and her going out for coffee with colleagues makes you uncomfortable, then you're going to need to take some time to consider how to handle your feelings of one-itis going forward.

To that end, I suggest that you consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.