@deeplydisturbed

I think I got that come back that in some circumstances might cime useful.

On outrageous demands/commments like that I might bring up something as ridicolous. And...

I was met with a chick that told me in plain english words she wants to settle. some fluff before and after. Yes it pissed me off and does when I think about it but likely it has never shown. Once, monthss later I used a circumstantual convo and laughed at this statement benovalently hard.

I ve made a pretty big demands, some of them right away, some of them in over the months.

..and... Once I have used the circumstances to made some outrageous demands, now it has been said, now I refer to it, it has been brought to existence and it doesnt go away. I will be bringing that casually to state my expectations, but not to force compliance.

it also establishes there is no limits to what I can ask for..

No boss bitch would go along with this programme.

What I have noticed I can start intercting meekly, but once I get pushed, there ia no going back.

Its close to going rambo, but in a most balanced way I can think if. 2 steps forward, one step back.

But... what Im trying to say, woman'$ stupid demands are turning the wheels. If rage doesnt fog the brain.

Random Thought - Saturday Evening Edition:

We all know about the epiphany phase, the wall, and the WAATGM phenomenon. So perhaps I am not saying anything new here, but bear with me.

When a woman proposes the following:

I ran the streets. Frat parties, spring break, big dicks, sucking a bartender’s dick in a bathroom, the anal, the oral, the trains, the drugs/drinking, the parties, the beaches, and all the other debauchery. I really enjoyed my 20’s and early 30’s.

Now that I have all that “out of my system” I am ready for something serious. No more games, one night stands, players, and fuck boys. I want a REAL man. And a REAL man “Steps up” and knows how to handle a “strong independent woman”. Real men are not intimidated by a strong woman.

And now that all the fun is over, and I am ready to settle, I want to settle with you. Now that the hard work begins - the pregnancy, the mood swings, the coping with the trauma of my wild past, the birth, the sleep deprivation, the diapers, paying the bills, helping with household chores while I sit on my ass and complain how hard it all is (after all, it is a LOT harder than laying on a beach in Cancun); I want to lay that all on YOU, Mr. “Real Man".

Now that the fun and fuckery has all been had, I want to lay the torture and difficulties on you, because I see you as a loser. As a simp. A fool. A sucker.

But don’t worry, the thing I bring to the table is me! You get all “this” (points to her crotch). You are lucky because I choose YOU.

I have had two woman propose such setups to me, without all the honesty, and I was honestly dumbstruck. Both times I busted out laughing. “Are you fucking kidding me?” was what i recall saying. Needless to say I am no longer seeing either of them any longer.

I get it - I am an accomplished older man who has a good attitude, easy going, and raised a family on my own. I have received a lot of sexual female attention in my life and I am in pretty good shape. So I can see why I would look like a good target.

But DAMN, what a fucking insult.

There are videos in which some ugly dude approaches a woman and she freaks out on him. The implication is that he DARES to think he has a chance with her. It shatters her delusions about what she can pull.

sigh

I guess I am in that very boat boys. Because of my success, some women see me as their golden ticket to simp abuse heaven.

I have been talking with a woman my age recently, and she is cute enough. And she informed me that she wants to know that I will not see other women before I sleep with her. And I made it clear that that was NOT going to happen in no uncertain terms. She still texts me every morning and wants to talk every night.

Go figure.

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@adam-l

therefore it relies on deep, ancestral faculties.

To add technical detail as a starting point for a deeper dive. Primate level cognition and metacognition, on the level that humans consider setting us apart from "lower animals ", is based in the Neocortex, which evolved long after the Old Mammalian and Reptilian brains, both of which still make up the bulk of human braincase content. Dark Triad individuals can perform dumb AF at tasks and skills that run on neocortex circuitry, yet some can greatly outperform their "intellectual " peers at crafty self serving and group dynamic manipulation. It makes me think of the terabytes of Naughty Dog shorts showing how creative canines can be at getting something placed out of their reach, often gaming humans and other dogs with rather detailed multi step schemes requiring forethought and planning. The underlying brain circuitry driving such behaviors evolved EONS before we clever monkies built our neocortex atop it.

It can require a LOT of neocortex processing time, for a trusting intellectual type. To detect when a seemingly dumb person is successfully manipulating them by outperforming at using these older brain circuits.

Lol, autocorrect kept trying to change Neocortex to Neocon. NOOOOOOO!