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1w ago Ask TRP
“if you decide to cheat, im not going to be mad. Just tell me so I can move on”.
Good preamble, but you should add something like.
' I care about you being faithful and believe it'll stay this way because you love/like me and want to be with me
Otherwise you kind of signal 'the end'
She got really offended and swore she’d never cheat and all that.
She could get offended by that she never did cheat and you assigned her to slut category, reaction is viceral
But, we all know the nature of women.
But we don't speak it, or call the wolf out of the forest
I don’t believe her.
You shouldn't believe her, you should act as you do, otherwise you don't give her a choice
@OPStolen Congrats on the job and all.
Because of your move, she has become "Geographically Undesirable." Unless she's willing to move to the same area (at her own expense, don't pay to move her out there) to continue with you, the relationship has necessarily ended.
End things with her kindly. You now have the toolset to vet and connect with a local woman as good or better.
1w ago Ask TRP
Your instincts are right.
She ain't a virgin maiden from the 50s.
She ain't even a traditional woman from a society that'll shame for cheating on her boyfriend (if you're not married, you're single).
Long distance in this configuration is the end of a relationship.
Keep her as a plate, but don't lie to yourself or to her.
Jesus Christ. Having solid moral values isn't "blue pill," you autistic faggot.
If you want to cheat, go ahead, but don't justify it by assuming she must be cheating too. That's projection and it's bitch behavior.
What is blue pill is fooling yourself into believing, if she does cheat, she'll tell you about it so you can cleanly break things off and move on. That's called being accountable. Generally speaking, women don't do that. If she's the type to cheat, she's probably also the type to never tell you about it. If she's the type to tell you about it she's probably not the cheating type.
Maybe she will cheat. Maybe she won't. Maybe it's more likely now you're planted the seed in her head. You'll probably never know either way. All you can do is weigh the risks and make a decision.
Congrats on the new job sir, I hope it works out for you. I genuinely hope things work out with the girl as well but, if they don't, don't be a little bitch with the next one and openly expose your insecurity like you did here.
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@OPStolen sound like good problems to have. Do whatever your values and frame allow you to do, man and don't overthink it too much. TRP isn't about morals. So do whatever but don't regret it. Depending on the girl you could get her to move. I know some people who made that work. I know some that fucked it up as well. Long-term is always going to be risky. It's faith based with the additional distance. Wish you the best of luck!
Go gym.
Should I Trust or Not?
So I got the job. 65k a year, paid for housing in a new state, 12k sign on bonus, potential to make 80k by end of year.
The girl I met in April is still going strong with me. She cooks, listens to me, lets me lead, and follows my directions. I told her “if you decide to cheat, im not going to be mad. Just tell me so I can move on”. She got really offended and swore she’d never cheat and all that. But, we all know the nature of women. She says she’ll be okay with a weekly visit and a phone call every other day. I don’t believe her.
Should I stay loyal in this new state or pre-cheat assuming she’s going to cheat while I’m away? It sounds horrible to type but my blue pill side keeps saying I should trust her. Deep in my heart, I know that shit’s wrong.
I set my friend up on a date. He didn’t polarize and got friendzoned. How do I debrief him?
Hey guys. The other day I met a friend of my girlfriend that reminds me of one of my buddies. I tell each of them a little about each other, and they’re excited to meet.
I plan a double date at an arcade since we’re all nerdy, and after a pit of playing games all together my girlfriend and I allow them to do their own thing.
My friend is usually an awkward and unsociable guy, probably some tism and what not. In a way he was alright - he was not nervous and didn’t make a fool of himself, but he refused to take any chances or, in effect, engage in any polarizing behavior. He was perfectly staid and proper and since he didn’t make any moves, he didn’t light any kind of spark in her, and she told my girlfriend that he was nice but she interested romantically.
Are there any good resources I might nudge him towards that will teach him the need to generate attraction and how to develop those skills? Kino, polarization, etc. He seems to think he did an excellent job and this was just bad luck, even though he was as placid as could be.
Consider recommending your friend a reliable ready reference they can pick up and study to better prepare themself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you point them to a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. Let your friend review the advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what he aspires for himself. To save them a search, let them know about this scribed link a to find out if his book is something he'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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