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Does TRP have an answer to the legacy/children question?
TRP is focused on the intersexual dynamics aspect, but I haven't ever seen a solid approach on how to have kids which has been the goal since the dawn of time until recent history. Most in TRP are understandably against marriage, or having a kid with a woman, because after all men don't have the same infrastructures and rights to keep their women in check and family together. But if you really want to have kids then whats the approach?
The only thing close to an answer I've read, is the idea of surrogacy overseas where its cheaper, but its still very expensive per child, legally convoluted, and most likely robbing the child of a mother. Moving overseas to find a wife to impregnate isn't it either, I don't want my kids to be growing up as third worlders.
Here's an article that touched on a proposed artificial womb development I shared a few years ago. While the youtube video has since gone private, here's an alt link if the text piques your interest. I expect the technology was already being refined for mass production years before the video was posted.
Outside of the the constant public derision of psychotic females on the forum, we don't often discuss anything that doesn't explicitly help guys understand how to get laid more than once, or twice a year. While chicks may have their baggage, so do a lot of guys.
Read MoreIs the book worth reading though?
Beats me. Like I told someone else a while back, I got so sick of carnold's constant spamming of that book that I refuse to even give it a chance.
@Typo-MAGAshiv lmao, tbh thats what I thought at first since he spams the book everywhere. Is the book worth reading though?
just so you know:
1) the guy you're replying to spams that same stupid book with the same copied + pasted screed to every single question
2) almost every active user here has him blocked and/or is blocked by him
3) he's most likely a virgin, and therefore has no experience or knowledge of what works or doesn't.
just so you know:
1) the guy you're replying to spams that same stupid book with the same copied + pasted screed to every single question
2) almost every active user here has him blocked and/or is blocked by him
3) he's most likely a virgin, and therefore has no experience or knowledge of what works or doesn't.
Now that my copied + pasted screed is done, I'll reply to a few things you've said.
a woman's interest level is everything
Yes, don't waste your time trying to win over a woman who has already decided "no".
Just haven't been able to find a woman that was everything I'm looking for as a life partner for now.
1) as a man, a relationship isn't your goal. That's a woman's worry and job. Your goal is to get sex. You can certainly be open to the possibility of granting a worthy woman (if you ever find one) a relationship, if she earns it. But making a relationship your goal will fuck things up for you.
2) "partner"? See the pic.
Read More@carnold03 Read quite a few of the many 'chapters' yesterday. The author and I are mostly on the same page. I agree with him that a woman's interest level is everything. Which is hard to accept because it means I'll have to let >90% of women go. The amount of women where interest level is high on both sides is <1% and that's a tough pill to swallow, because for me my largest difficulty is that I have little interest in socializing for the sake of socializing. Which is very important because you have to cast a net as wide as possible if you want to get any quantity of quality women.
Pretty sure I've already mastered many of the topics discussed in the book by reading TRP. Some even to the point where I'm overdoing it, perhaps (as I'm naturally the avoidant type). It does always result in fast rejection or a super strong connection, though.
Just haven't been able to find a woman that was everything I'm looking for as a life partner for now. Attractive, fun, intelligent and respectable. Then again, I'm super picky. But I like to believe I have all the qualities that allow a man to be that picky. Again, I think my problem is mostly a lack of an extensive social life and consistent access to high quality women.
Read More@carnold03 I started the book a while back, but didn't get far. I'll get back into it, thanks
Resources for (mainly indirect) day game? Thoughts on the method?
I want to get into perfecting my day game and am looking for more content and resources that could help. I skimmed through Roosh's day bang (I plan to finish it later), and read some posts from TRP archive. I don't like mainstream normie pickup approaches to day game, because they all focus on direct game, i.e. going straight up to a woman and complimenting her, its more likely to fail, especially in day game.
I like the way Roosh did it, basically striking up a regular conversation with a woman, and throwing out baits to see if she bites, like making a statement about a topic and seeing if she follows up on it. If she takes the most of your baits then you know she's interested and you can tell her you enjoy talking to her and would like to get coffee sometime, then exchange numbers or social media.
Thoughts? And are there other resources you would recommend?
Nothing I haven't suggested already. I'm still surprised Roosh actually took my advice in seeking out to build for himself a group of solid trustworthy male friends. That the journey would lead someone with a Turkish-Iranian background to join the Christian faith I still can't say was entirely unsurprising, as his writing gave off a profound sense of defeat and mental exhaustion.
Keep developing your communication skills, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read MoreMy ego got hurt at a home party, trying to better myself
I‘ve been invited to this chicks home party for halloween; she wanted to see me and was implying she was dressed up as a sexy vampire and I can be her edward cullen. I got there and I was having fun with my friends, talking to everyone. I was trying to initiate and isloate the given chick (we matched on hinge) and tried to kiss her. She told me she feels like I‘m mad at her and it would be better to see us in that kind of setting for a different time. In my head I knew this is not going to work and I‘d never meet her again. She then proceeded to fuck another guy at the home party after talking to me.
Rationally, I have no idea why I‘m upset. I literally don‘t know her but maybe my expectations that I thought I‘m gonna see her and potentially fuck her made me hurt my ego. I feel like I got cucked for some reason. I literally have lots of women, even made out with her girl friend later in the club and ended up picking another one up I brought home; but I still can‘t shake the feeling off that I got a bit „embarrassed“. I am usually very stoic and these things would never faze me, but it was so in my face that I kinda got pissed off.
Curious about some insight
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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