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Well, I was thinking of something else.
In more traditional societies, dads (and especially moms) are reticent to marry off their beloved son to any random chick. Her social-economic and family credentials need to be as good if not better than theirs.
So for less than 2x the income I have to work 8x as hard.
Not necessarily 8x as hard; much of office time isn't really all that productive.
Take it from a wage slave who's on the verge of busting free: you have a good thing, along with a great realization that takes most people at least a decade longer to get.
@Bozza if she had said any of the "I'm a strong, independent woman!" crap, the "when are you taking me out to dinner" would have been a great opportunity to say something like "you're strong and independent, so why don't you take me out to dinner?"
When a chick gets that demanding at the beginning, may as well have some fun with it
Went to one of these "singles nights" tonight. Surprisingly, turned out to be a decent evening. Not much came of it but primary reason I went was to sharpen my approaches and frame.
Women vastly outnumbered men, and most of the men are complete betas. Which made things quite easy.
Most of the women were HB5 and of little interest, but there were some HB7 and HB8s in attendance.
Game plan was completely off. Idea was to work the crowd, establish pre selection and circle back. This kinda worked on the >HB7s. But the HB8s left pretty early and I should have number closed on the spot. Lesson learned.
Interestingly the HB6s and 7s shirt tested HARD. HB8s barely shit tested at all.
A HB7 invited me out to get drinks after the event which I went to. Good chat, good kino, good escalation. She then says "When are you taking me out for dinner" and suggests one of the more expensive places in town. I say I don't do dinner dates, but if she wants drinks that'll be great.
Well after a bit of shit testing and refusing the buckle. She accuses me of just trying to get her drunk and fuck her and storms out of the bar in a dramatic exit. Quite amusing honestly.
Probably good filtering. But I think in hindsight I probably should have flipped the frame back onto her and made a joke of it, rather than just setting the frame in stone.
Anyway, decent night tbf.
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@Lionsmane8 They are men who want the "bad bitch", very assertive (and possibly dark triad) women with talents and who do their own thing such as very talented hobbies etc. They're men who would settle for the boss bitch but still they're not effeminate, they don't want to be dominated. Just to "tame her" and "fix her". Jocks somewhat do the same hypergamous thing that actually fuck Stacies not shy reserved Beckies who barely speak a word and are considered weirdos and creepy because Stacies have very talented socially adept wirings, highly popular status... It's all about status and dark triad characteristics from teenagehood to early and mid 20s.
And the shy little girl in the corner gets ignored factually all the time. We all had a creepily isolated girl that no matter how attractive physically everyone made fun of and nobody hang around with her, securely let alone fuck her.
Read MoreUpdate here for those who are interested: Instead of sharing TRP with my friend I instead shared TRP values with him and he seemed pretty receptive to it! So good outcome came from the conversation. He may end up reaching out to me again but he did thank me for the advice. I wish him the best of luck in his adventures
