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@Guy Don't begrudge the woman for approaching you, I believe it DOES reflect well on you. Let her down nicely and you won't handicap your chances with her chick friend network.
Personally I love boning chubby women. I'm genetically very low body fat so when I'm with a woman as thin as myself, our pubic bones clunk together audibly like two plate tampers going at it.
All other things NOT being equal, what was she like in general? Certainly not-fat isn't your only or main qualifier..?
@Jocbro Just tell her otherwise you'll go insane. You'll have to reap what you sowed literally lol but otherwise you'll slowly go insane because your lie will make you think that she also has her lies and any case what's a woman if you can't confide in her? You could always not say anything but then you're basically back to spinning plates which is something you already said you don't want.
@Jocbro You got to just avoid the other women from now on. I'm not kidding. There is no other way and it really is as simple as that. If you want to stop jacking it to porn then stay off the porn sites. If you want to stop fucking easy women stay away from them. Don't talk to them and better than that don't be in places where you have to look at them. Most women are not that attractive out there. You'd really have to look around to find a seven or above. Another thing you could do is make a habit of mentioning you have a girlfriend really early in the conversation and self sabotage your self.
@Jocbro you're gonna be fine. The bad feeling will dissipate and you will come to understand more about yourself.
My advice would be to not fool yourself into thinking it's okay to not be attracted to your GF and stay in the LTR just because she's "a good girl".
At the same time you both have a certain responsibility to keep things sexually interesting. It's not all about her staying fit and available, and it's not all on you to constantly be creative and lustful. But you as a man have the power to improve your LTR sex life if you choose to.