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@cjtakk it's only a few months in, so it isn't a real LTR. those are measured in years, not months.
Are you two exclusive? Are you absolutely certain you can trust her?
The reason I asked my original question about how much RP reading you've done, is that from everything I've ever read, there's really no such thing as an LDR (Long-Distance Relationship), with very rare exceptions such as they're already married and the distaste is temporary, like when I went to Iraq and my wife was stateside. Even those, though, are fraught with horror stories of the wives at home cheating (and sometimes husbands cheating with female Soldiers while the faithful wife is home).
I don't see this going well for you. The odds are not on your side, especially if you're both young.
And she can get drilled by dozens of Aussie dudes over the summer, and you might never find out at all.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv My fair share. I could say that I used to spin plates well. I just added some back on snapchat to try and keep them in the circle. But I have’nt experienced a proper LTR so this is new to me
Personally I could never place myself in your situation with a 6 month old relationship because AWALT.
Different continent? You're never going to know if she didn't fuck around with a summer lover.
You don't know her as well as you think you do.
Break it off and find a little summer loving of your own. Focus on yourself.
Read the sidebar because the post says you haven't.
Also I'd love to here takes on the current meme question that's taking the internet by storm:
Women, would you rather be alone in the woods with a bear or man?
Fucking phone and crappy data connection. Deleting duplicates...
Hi.
I started dating in the beginning of the year. We have had a great time together and have developed a deep connection. Unfortunately my girlfriend had agreed to work the summer abroad in Australia.
Now my question is how to approach the situation after she left. I miss her a lot but I know I should’nt be pouring my heart out but at the same time I would like to let her know that I miss her.
Should I keep the emotional texting at minimal or tell her often about how I feel?
@Lionsmane8 I thought about it. It’s short term. I’m so used to not pulling anyone that I immediately fell back to beta mode and was thinking “Damn she let me in, I gotta find a way to keep her”. I’m better than that. There’s always another woman and an easier woman. I don’t need to chase anyone. I’m going to ghost until Friday and then hit her up for drinks.
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Time for you to practice your "frame control" as @Vermillion-Rx implies.
If you struggle with sticking with boundaties I suggest an autistic method to help you with that.
Draw a table with one line and 4 columns.
The line will have her name.
The columns are: 0, short-term, medium-term, long-term.
When your head cools down, sit on a desk and rationally assess the girl's potential.
Act in accordance with the category you've put her in.
This mental assessment tool will help you discipline yourself. (I.e don't give medium-term trrament to short-term girls).
Good luck.