How to get with older women in the office as a young man?
I'm a really young guy (20) and there are a few attractive older women (mid-20s- early 30s) in my office. I'm also an attractive guy, and I've had some small talk here and there, and I've caught the occasional glance. The problem is, I'm not sure how to properly run a game on them.
I should also mention that I don't work with any of these women or their company; we just happen to work in the same building/space.
@Vermillion-Rx She has more to lose than I do. I'll write an update on how it goes though.
No, it's a little secret between me and her, everything she does is subtle.
As far as you know, you mean. Well, if you're state-side, wait until you've passed the class then ask her out to coffee to confirm her interest. In the meantime, update your resume now so you can begin applying for summer jobs or paid internships, and make a goal of hitting the nurses or medical office on campus once a week to raid the free condom bowl. Beyond that, do your best to pass the classes you've currently enrolled yourself in and consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex.
I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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@Vermillion-Rx @Typo-MAGAshiv I might go for it anyway, I just don't see how it could end badly as long as neither of us acts weird in class/public. I know there's a good amount of guys fucking their teacher/boss/friend's mom/anyone they shouldn't publicly be seen with.
I'm sorry guys but when a hot girl keeps caressing you, you've gotta go for it. Also I think she's bumping/padding my grade.
@carnold03 No, it's a little secret between me and her, everything she does is subtle.
@MentORPHEUS A bit difficult my school is bit of a sausage party. I've seen some hot chicks in the hallway every now and then but they're pretty more like enigmas than students.
Preselect by picking up plentiful college students in front of her. If she really has the hots for you this will help polarize the situation. If (super duper long shot) it works, don't consummate till after the semester ends.
How Can I Bang My College Professor??
I'm pretty sure she's given me some iois and everytime I look up at her I see her looking at me. She's also just more nice to me than everyone else and she's even gotten a bit ohysical with me. How can I escalate from here?
As far as you know, is there anyone either in the class with you or on campus otherwise aware that your professor is showing you signs of interest?
@Vermillion-Rx Alright I'll take your advice and just finish the class then I only have her for this quarter anyway. But say Spring or Summer break can I do it then?
