The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
49m ago TheRedPill
@Vermillion-Rx I can only presume men are always getting a sharpened hunter instincts in unknown environment, side vision etc it sounds like you spent some time in this love triangle, no way to not to get a warning sign and then pay more attention.
trying to push his woman's hands away gently
Dude is getting cucked
lost his woman's soul
You'd think she has one... She doesn't nor manners (as in at least keeping appearances).
She now may be conditioned to think that it is normal to touch dude in the presence of a partner. Even if she wasn't, slut has been born. To uncondition that, would take an effort from the next partner.
@redpillschool it was that thing is we're talking about but in meme form
I have had that happen so many times where women think it's easy shit and then realize they are NOT the woman they based that off of
They think it's all me and it's not. It's mostly me but if you can't move a certain way you're not gonna move like her
Although I am very good at teaching women to be malleable so i don't run into it often. They learn quickly from me and it motivates them to try harder
He might have learned a move but he lost his woman's soul
Considering later he looked at her when I said "you two have eachother as dance partners, i didn't have one when i first started" and he looked at her and said "yeah you're stuck with me"
And she said yeah and leaned on his shoulder
Either girlfriend or wife.
Hard to say how the instincts have been blunted, but it should be built in on instinctual level.
I genuinely think he didn't see it. It was probably something i could feel but he couldn't see. I don't know how he didn't. I never stopped talking to him or making eye contact while trying to push his woman's hands away gently
9h ago TheRedPill
@Vermillion-Rx I have a friend on a dances. We get silly have fun but dance well. She is very thin, fairly tall so it is easy to manipulate her body and it looks good.
Sometimes right after the dance with her a get some older or not so slender woman with a sparkle in the eye that wants to dance with me.
I can see this sparkle usuaquickly disappear when they cant do the stuff the other girl did and they generally are too heavy to manipulate or not flexible enough.
10h ago TheRedPill
Bros before Hoes. These guys had a deeper and more profound shared past and journey together than most guy friends by a wide margin, but they got split apart to go their separate ways in a foreign land over the petty manipulations of a woman.
I'd think Russian guys know better than that
How a college girl defeated the Russians in the 80s using only her pussy
A cautionary tale from my blue pilled early 20s.
Time period: Mid to late 80s. Cultural background: President Reagan was at the peak of his gambit of outdoing Russia at diverting a huge portion of our nation's GDP into the insatiable maw of the Military-Industrial complex. Our parents' generation had come of age during the Cuban Missile Crisis and Vietnam War, so there was a strong generational divide between older Americans completely gung-ho for anything that purported to "stand up to/against" the Russians, and Younger Americans coming of age under the strong likelihood that everything Mankind had achieved was constantly under threat of getting wiped out in a sudden outbreak of global thermonuclear war. We did not share our parents' automatic dislike of any and all things Russian, and were openminded toward working past this mindset for our own futures.
While I went straight into the trades, my high school friend (and embarrassing crush) a cute buxom blond gal, attended an arts college an hour away. I spent many a weekend there at parties and hanging out, so I got to watch the players here firsthand.
Her dorm mate was Latina by appearance and surname, but while she'd "let" guys spend their tight college age budget money taking her out on dates, her legs would only fly open for Russian guys for some reason. According to my friend, she would mock and belittle them immediately after these dates. It just so happened that in their class were two Russian exchange students from Kiev, who were friendly and outgoing and became quite popular around campus.
Over the course of years, I watched as she got together with one of them, played the two of them off of each other, then eventually married the "other" one. She turned out not only manipulative at the dating stage, but domineering and demanding at the wife stage. She would show up to social gatherings with her husband, and plant her ass on a seat while making him buzz about serving her like a queen bee.
The two guys were originally best friends who had grown up together and emigrated to a foreign land to spend years assimilating into a new language and culture. By the time this branch of the friend group broke off, they had become cold and suspicious toward each other, and their warm and outgoing personas had turned to a bitter solitary sullenness. One of the last times I saw them, it was announced that she was pregnant. SHE looked supremely happy; he looked and acted the part of someone playing someone else's character in a movie, deeply unhappy but unable to express this.
[B] Lessons to take away:[/b]
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Be aware that just because you find yourself with a cultural or ethnic "in" with a woman that works to your advantage in dating/sleeping with her, Don't assume this can never get turned around and weaponized against you later once she gets time to sink her talons into you.
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If you see your woman manipulating a guy close to her to your short term advantage, recognize this as a red flag that she will do the same to you
- Bros before Hoes. These guys had a deeper and more profound shared past and journey together than most guy friends by a wide margin, but they got split apart to go their separate ways in a foreign land over the petty manipulations of a woman.
15h ago TheRedPill
I ask both of them if they need a break and they keep saying no. Him because he wants to learn, her because she obviously doesn't want me to fucking leave.
Id say at least he might learn a new move, right, right? She is a ho anyway if she is so disrespectful. Unless he was only a libertarian friend.
I'm not even sure they see it because "their" girls
Hard to say how the instincts have been blunted, but it should be built in on instinctual level.
The messages i didn't get from her were sms
It's usually RCS
It had more to do with where she was with her family when that was happening
16h ago TheRedPill
@Vermillion-Rx what do you use. It sounds like SMS. Ithink its the only service that can send a new message without receiving some messages lost in a matrix, at the same time.
TBH, last time I have heard Bout this kind of issue was ages ago.