The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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Immediately perma-banning any users with a net negative contribution on this sub (for rules 5 and 8) and my reasoning why
Net-negative: overall negative contribution outweighs positive contributions on here
Too many of you guys are saying "wuh happened sub? trolllolololololol" and incidentally, a lot of you guys are the exact reason "wuh happneed surb" happened. Part of the issue is a lot of OGs got banned for thought crimes, and many of them were mods. Attrition of the OGs and thus mods to keep the place in check was partly what happened to the sub, but another major reason "wuh hapin sooob duh hur" happened was because of A LOT OF YOU GUYS
SOME of YOU guys are what happened to sub and you wonder what happened to it. It's largely many of YOU. You have no original posts, no top-level comments, the ones you have are usually bad, if at all, and then come on to posts to critique a good faith writer (or worse, a flaired user [EC, 1, 2, 3 point-flair, MOD]) with the most low-effort dunking. You trash an ENTIRE 1-3 hour typing of a post, no actual critique on the portion you disagree with and often do it in the worst ways you can, usually in a singular low-effort sentence. They are flaired for a reason, because they earned their flairs from contribution and enduring critiques on their writing and having to defend their ideas (and YOU didn't). Even amongst non-flaired aspiring posters/writers this is remarkably unhelpful to writer growth, ESPECIALLY if you haven't written jack yourself.
Then we look at your sub list: you have nofap, NSFW pr0n subs, purple pill debate (you're not even RedPill), loads of video-gaming subs, askmen, addiction help subs, forever alone, incel, and a lot of other degeneracy I've come across looking at your sub list. ALMOST WITHOUT FAIL, it's like a 1:1 correlation. Why tf are some of you even on here at all?? Go join r /peanutgallery6969 if that's the quality of contribution you have to offer here.
Further, 95% of you I ban on these grounds as is respond in modmail (or worse my personal DM's, a violation of RULE 8) with "incel" ad hominems "oh no" "won't miss sub anyway" "sub trash" other completely random assumptions about my personal life, etc. Proving how much you didn't even care about the sub you are degrading to begin with, anyway. Maybe 5% or less of you try to salvage your sub membership post-ban, which is so low that I know EXACTLY what I'm banning and don't regret it for even a nano-second.
So from now on, I'm just immediately perma-banning (temp if I'm feeling extra-deluxe nice) anyone who is net-negative contributing to the sub on the grounds of rules 5 (**no insults: debate the ideas not the person) and 8 (address the community properly).**
Read MoreMy post on r/TheRedPill regarding the instant banning of people with net negative contributions in TheRedPill specifically (applies on the TheRedPill tribe here too)
However, I realize this site has more on it than just original content TheRedPill posts so this rule/post only applies to bans in TheRedPill tribe, unless you also harass me on DMs and show me why the ban should extend past TheRedPill tribe only.
4d ago TheRedPill
UPDATE: thanks for all the help guys, I fucked the new girl like 5 times in 3 days, and it was great and all. But I felt like I really wasn't honest with myself and in a moment of impulse, I broke up with my LTR. I felt like it was all done in a rush, leading to a new post with a new question. I'm just in a really confused state right now, and don't know what's good for me and my life. It's like a 50/50 and I really want to make the most optimal/correct decision for my life (strategically and for the future). Please refer new post for context
1w ago TheRedPill
1w ago TheRedPill
have a tough time making a decision on my own side.
Stop right there.
You are making long term life decisions based on your feelings. This is going to ruin your life sooner or later.
We sit here day in and day out showing all sorts of evidence about female hypergamy, and you are doing exactly that right now.
You do not belong here.
With that said, the right thing to do is to stay loyal to the woman who has been loyal to you. If she gained 30+ pounds then you have cause to talk to her about it. Attraction is not everything, although important.
do i have an option to “have my cake and eat it too”?
Yes. But if you're looking for permission to cheat then you are a moron. Anyone can cheat. You just don't do it. If she were some chick you were banging then all bets are off. I won't shame you, but I have no respect for cheaters.
Unless you have an agreed upon open relationship, then do NOT cheat.
Verdict: Break up with this woman immediately. She does not deserve to be fucked over by the likes of you.
Community Note: This user is starting to look more like a woman from Reddit coming here to see if us Red Pill losers support cheating when it's men doing it. I have seen posts like this before. I'm almost always right.
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