What's something that everybody thinks they know, but is actually wrong? Here's a place to red pill the masses on anything and everything. Bonus points if you link to a tribe about your findings.
She finds a guy better than you, she cheats. It doesn't get any simpler than that.
1) it can also be a guy she only perceives as better in some way. More exciting, etc.
2) some women actually have decent character and won't even be alone with other dudes at all or put themselves into tempting situations. Rare, but they exist.
I'm not afraid of losing her
Good.
From Roissy's Sixteen Commandments of Poon we have number 16:
XVI. Never be afraid to lose her
You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.
Just as a side note, the dude you're replying to needs to stop expecting other users to spoon-feed him and start reading and thinking for himself.
Read More@Mate1212 I get it. But the best you can do is be better yourself. I have a girlfriend myself and I'm not afraid of losing her, because I know I'm the best fucking option she can possibly choose from.
She finds a guy better than you, she cheats. It doesn't get any simpler than that.
Now I also get it that the insecurity is always going in at the back of the mind but if you work onto being a better yourself every day your mindset will shift entirely. You'll no longer feel insecure or a loser because the subconscious will start believing that you're actually building something. Work out daily, work towards developing your skills, do what you like and actually start living life in the real world instead of your head. This will tremendously help.
Posting that you're insecure about being cheat on will only end up in her cheating because you are a 'loser'. Because losers ain't got options and will cry if their girl leaves. Don't be a loser. And don't be afraid of her cheating. Who knows if fuck-your-bitch richie will have eyes on your girl and wants to fuck her (spoiler: she'll go with fuck-your-bitch richie). Only two solutions, there are: 1) Stop caring about being cheated on. 2) Be a better choice (IN THE EYES OF YOUR GIRL) than fuck-your-bitch richie.
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How do I know whether I should set a boundary? How do I know whether it is disrespect / offence or just my insecurity of getting cheated on?
I don't want to imprison here because I'm to afraid of getting cheated on but I also don't want to be mr. Nice guy beta cuckold who lets everything slide.
@BobcatNo6400 I know. It isn't in the conscious mind. There won't be a better catch for here than me, but sometimes it's just like a gut feeling. Hard to explain
@Mate1212 Why are you afraid of being cheated on? She's not yours. Its just your turn.
How do I know whether I should set a boundary? How do I know whether it is disrespect / offence or just my insecurity of getting cheated on?
I don't want to imprison here because I'm to afraid of getting cheated on but I also don't want to be mr. Nice guy beta cuckold who lets everything slide.