The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
5d ago TheRedPill
5d ago TheRedPill
have a tough time making a decision on my own side.
Stop right there.
You are making long term life decisions based on your feelings. This is going to ruin your life sooner or later.
We sit here day in and day out showing all sorts of evidence about female hypergamy, and you are doing exactly that right now.
You do not belong here.
With that said, the right thing to do is to stay loyal to the woman who has been loyal to you. If she gained 30+ pounds then you have cause to talk to her about it. Attraction is not everything, although important.
do i have an option to “have my cake and eat it too”?
Yes. But if you're looking for permission to cheat then you are a moron. Anyone can cheat. You just don't do it. If she were some chick you were banging then all bets are off. I won't shame you, but I have no respect for cheaters.
Unless you have an agreed upon open relationship, then do NOT cheat.
Verdict: Break up with this woman immediately. She does not deserve to be fucked over by the likes of you.
Community Note: This user is starting to look more like a woman from Reddit coming here to see if us Red Pill losers support cheating when it's men doing it. I have seen posts like this before. I'm almost always right.
Read More@SwarmShawarma really does not sound complicated bro.
I wish everyone would start the con convo stating age of all protagonists.
5d ago TheRedPill
@lalola0101 Think about it like a woman would cool headedly and selfishly before anything else -is the monkey branch worth it?
Do you see yourself being happy for the rest of your life with the current girlfriend? If not then its all open, if so then be very circumspect.
Next, would the monkey branch one be a serious long term girl friend or a bit of fun?
Is it worth investigating more?
If so, what would a woman do? -Make dam sure the second branch looked sound before letting go of the first.
6d ago TheRedPill
@lalola0101 deep down you're over this LTR and you damn well know it.
6d ago TheRedPill
Without knowing more, I say break up with your current GF and fuck around.
1) what do you want to do?
2) are you aware of the possible consequences of each path you take?
3) can you live with the consequences of the one you want?
Choose accordingly.
1w ago TheRedPill
@lalola0101 staying in shape is also showing loyalty
you are asking what should you with chick you did't even fuck nor probably spoke too much to.
You are not hurting anyone as long as you are not hurting anyone. Women will try to convince you otherwise, but all you need to take care of, you don't embarrass any women by being promiscuous or otherwise.
Taste the strange and keep her away from your life. If you'll get caught deny, unless you were caught red-handed in bed + pushed against the wall don't explain yourself. You might not know what you do, but you will learn.
To know more about new pussy you'll need to hold her on side-lines for at least 6-12 months [not ta;lking about moving in].
Check your frame with your 7 chick, observe how she changes as you get more validation from fucking strange.
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