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Cause I remember you saying sleuthing like if I can’t even make friends how do I expect to get to the date stage
@Vermillion-Rx no I meant that I should’ve made the move obviously but it should’ve been with the intention of making friends . I obviously fucked up by not asking for her contact information I should’ve done that in any case
Stop assuming. If a woman approaches you take it.
All I told you was to stop trying the same failed strategy you had on repeat without acquiring the right skills
Of course you shouldn't pass up opportunities in the mean time.
You really need to learn how to think with nuance man, and not hang on to literal interpretations
I interpreted as [unforced sperg analysis]
This makes absolutely no sense dude... This would be like someone telling you to focus on getting training and certifications before trying to get a certain kind of job and then when a recruiter who might offer the job outright to you anyway tries to offer it you let it pass.
This is straight retardation dude. I hope at some point you realize how counterproductive your thoughts are because you're your own worst enemy.
Ofc you shouldn't pass up the opportunity. Where were you ever going to see this woman again if you didn't make a move.
Jesus man
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@Vermillion-Rx I interpreted your advice as to focus entirely on making friends first and then working the social aspect. Like trying to meet people through mutual friends and get invited to places. Basically just date through a social circle
@Vermillion-Rx Technically it was at the mall but yeah I see your point. She also couldn’t really see my face when she called out to me either so I just assumed that she didn’t do it based on her attraction to me but rather just seeing someone with a helmet
I repeat myself:
Always Be Closing
When you get laid a lot then you can come back here and tell us you know when they are surefire not interested
Wasn’t really a IOI in my opinion, she was just happy to see another biker haha. I can tell when it’s a IOI they act flustered or more direct but she was definitely just being outgoing and friendly
You have absolutely no business determining what an IOI is when you can't even get laid.
Women do not position themselves to talk to random men on the road unless they are at least somewhat interested. This is the same if they randomly chat you at a cafe or a bus or etc.
I'm not sure why inexperienced men so easily shoot down the experience experienced guys tell them. She was more than likely interested and you're being stubbornly retarded here dismissing that
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Not to speak for him, and Vermy is certainly free to correct meb if I'm mistaken, but he meant focus on making friends instead of obsessing over women.
he did not mean for you to ignore golden opportunities that fall in your lap, or worse, to FriendZone yourself with women who are interested.
That's exactly what i meant. Spergs gonna sperg.
I'm not sure how self aware spergs are that they are sperging this badly. I'm increasingly convinced spergs cannot determine nuance and that additionally their state of being a sperg is because they can't determine nuance
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