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@Vermillion-Rx > some women will want you and it's your job to try so that you can figure out which ones it it.
Yeah this part makes a lot of sense. The only women that have actually pursued me have been fat/unattractive women so maybe I should go for them and just eat viagra or something to lose my khhv status
At least you had
You don't know everything I had to deal with. I maxxed out my story characters.
Even if you did it doesn't matter. I still tried. You have to fucking try. Women are only attracted to dudes who are action and take risks. If you aren't doing that you're fucked . That's the entry level barrier.
You need to just face rejection or the possibility of it.
Or better you look at it the correct way, some women will want you and it's your job to try so that you can figure out which ones it it.
You're not special. The forumula doesn't magically change because you hate yourself or had narc parents. That's horseshit. If you at least fucking try some girls will be down. Fuck your attitude
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@Vermillion-Rx I read it man and it seems like you were always surrounded by people at least. You had friend groups, stayed in dorms in college etc. I had none of that. It’s not as inspiring as you think it would be but thanks for linking it.
I was isolated and socially handicapped by narcissistic parents and I’m actively trying to reverse that. I feel like I never learned how to genuinely connect with people and I have a bunch of insecurities about not being good enough along with having a very transactional view of relationships and having a hard time trusting/opening up to people. Sorry for the trauma dump but I never talked about any of this here so might as well put it out there.
I know you’re going to say as a man it’s my duty to take it on the chin and keep my head up. Which I agree with, just wanted to let you know where I’m coming from I guess
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I know exactly what your pussy ass is thinking because I did the same shit before. You know what the only thing you can do is??
Take action. You're not going to magically psychoanalyze yourself into confidence when you have no victories.
You're not a goddamn woman who can just sit on her tits till someone goes and lowers their standards for her. You have to actually fucking try.
Confidence comes from victory not from stroking your dick on the internet
Go read my origin story and tell me i don't know what I'm talking about
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@Vermillion-Rx dude you think I don’t know that I KNOW I’m insecure and have problems which is I’m trying to fix THAT first instead of just falling flat on my face due to women being able to tell I’m insecure and rejecting because of that
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This is fucking retarded self hatred buffer bullshit so that you can make excuses for not taking action.
Ask them out. Try some kino. Try to tease them. Risk the rejection.
All of these are necessary components of getting any results. If you choose not to take swings when you're up to bat that's entirely your own damned fault.
What is this bullshit cope?
I still haven’t had my first kiss.
So fucking what? You're acting like a self-loathing bitch instead of doing the thing.
I’m just losing hope at this point
You're literally not doing the things to get results. Holy shit
You saying to “just close” isn’t conducive to that
This is extreme lame ass cope.
"You seem cool I'd be down to get a drink with you some time"
"Hey I'm doing x next week if you want to join"
Etc.
You could say any of this shit at the end of any of these interactions. Root cause, my ass.
If you do not even attempt to get a close, you will not acquire women. That is entirely on you and you don't need psychoanalysis to take that step. Risk the rejection. This is pure fucking cope and everyone reading it can see it
@Vermillion-Rx I’m trying to fix the root cause which is my self esteem. You saying to “just close” isn’t conducive to that