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Tl;Dr: My buddy/mechanic of ten years introduced us last summer while me and the ex were separated, living together and working things out. There was instant attraction. Then my ex randomly showed up but not for me.
We ended up reconnecting through the owner of her company in October/November.
The longer version is full of drama but not between her and I.
Has anyone else observed how women are practically LLMs? They operate by "narratives", i.e. moving words around, with no real logic or a link to reality underneath.
Best you can do is vet them for the traits that matter.
And at the end of the day, that's all I'm really doing. It's just something I view as a diqaulifer.
Even if it's irrational, my line of thought is how much of ho are you that the men IRL aren't enough? Or wtf is wrong with you, that the guys that know you in person, don't want to lock it down.
I and the two dozen or so men I called close friends across the span of 15 years, relied solely on social game spanning many circle/venues/locations.
I don't think I seriously touched OLD until 2018 or 19 when I moved out West, to a city I knew zero fucking people in and I still scored at the bars before online.
@Kloi Thing is, I don't think it really matters where you meet women - AWALT is AWALT.
I've known plenty of "good girls" who've never touched OLD who were MASSIVE sluts.
And I've reached a point now where I've seen enough that I doubt these unicorns even exist anymore. I've shared a bunch of my stories of girls over the years I've been on here.
You're never gonna find a girl who didn't get fucked at the foam party in cancun and honestly, I don't care if they did. I've done a lot worse for a lot less.
Best you can do is vet them for the traits that matter.
Basic rule of thumb that has worked for me across 6 states; talk with everyone.
Men and women. Young or old. Doesn't matter. If you're opening everyone, making small talk. Joking, pushing boundaries with complete strangers, naturally, you just fall into pussy.
It becomes who you are, not something you're doing just now and again when you see a girl that tickles your fancy.
That being said, I am a social individual who regularly gets approached by strangers in public.
So many opportunities in my life has started with a simple hello on the street or small talking in the suana. I don't mean just women.
how are you suppose to talk your way into pussy if you can't manage small talk with a complete stranger?
There are good women on OLD.
Mehh, I couldn't imagine myself taking any girl from OLD seriously but I'll openly admit my time on OLD was only ever spent looking for quick lays when I first move to a new city.
I don’t go to bars usually and work during day.
You ain't missing out on anything spectacular at the bars and probably shouldn't hook up with your employees.
Day games your best bet if OLD isn't providing the right kind of girl. Not necessarily just going out looking for women but make it a habit to strike up conversation/flirt with attractive women you bump into throughout your day, naturally.