In lesser discussed TRP, there's the concept of "she will circle back".

Over the past few months, I've experienced that.

Since October, I have let my plates fall off. This was a combination of practicality (went travelling in Asia) and necessity - lost my job, no money. I cant justify spending money at the bar with no job.

I went from 5 plates to 0. With no intention of onboarding anymore. The cards may fall wherever they fell.

In three cases, they have circled back.

Hot Brazilian MILF. She circled back first. After blocking me because she had "feelings for me". She messaged me out of the blue and wanted to get back together. We fucked for a few more weeks until she again decided that she "had feelings for me".

Ultra hot middle eastern girl messaged me out of the blue after xmas. She invited me over to fuck and we did. After begging me to stay the next day and going to a museum together, she then decided she doesn't want to know me anymore. I suspect she will again return.

The first girl after my breakup. After 7 months of no contact messages me asking "how are you". Quickly turns into lets meet up and fuck, which we did. Back as plate.

@deeplydisturbed But shopping is so much easier. I have a good idea where to find what I want before I go shopping. I know what I will pay if I buy it. I pay cash and take it home. its mine then for as long as I want it. If someone stole it the police might catch them and get it back (doubtful when the police are all out catching racist, sexist and homophobic tweeters but its still theoretically possible). If it bores me I can put it in a cupboard or sell it.

Shopping for a girl on the other hand oh boy. Its complex. These days you can't own one but you always seem to be paying rent in some way on them.

Random Saturday evening thought. Dating is like putting cash into a slot machine. Each date you steadily put resources of time and money into the machine hoping that the lights will flash and the machine will pay (put) out. Some machines pay out easily, others need you to put more in before you get anywhere. You can try several one after another if you like. Once you get one that seems to be paying out, you tend to keep playing with it. Once you are hooked, the machine pays out less and less often but still just about enough to keep you playing. At this point do not make the assumption that purchasing the machine will secure the payouts.

@Typo-MAGAshiv

None of it is necessary. Just lift weights, be in shape, and be well-groomed and clean. Muscles matter more than anything else. I used to dress like a total slob, even wearing flip-flops out and about, and I still got laid because I exuded ZFG energy and had muscles and charm.

The issue is literally small-gym politics in my gym where the actually in fact most still irrationally hyperemotional ethnicity/cult of Rhomioi (modern "greeks") in fact still always most hyperemotionally show favouritism to the boomers who are actually in fact still the most dysgenically subhuman lowest 60 IQ gypsy peasant karagkioz Turk Armenoids literally some of them even their actually in fact still most dysgenically subhuman gypsiest Armenoid physiognomy & their in fact literally shortest midget height actually in fact scientifically proves they're in fact severely mentally ill but still they will in fact still most cowardly insult you as "mentally ill" or some kind of "my boy you have problems (mental)" in future conflict while thme being literally severely mentally ill loser bums & literally in fact the most dysgenically subhuman gypsies so you'll be essentially caught fighting them and be throw out of the gym because the owner is actually in fact still the most irrationally hyperemotional biased Rhomios that these still actually in fact always hyperemotionally give still disproportionately biased favouritism from their still most neurotically subhumanism to boomers by default.

This is what actually concerns me because I will be essentially kicked out, this is why I don't even still hang around a lot in my gym out of this concern but still I am not paying to workout there. I literally prefer my gyms to be literally of typicalities and faceless which were my older gyms but were still actually bigger (and I paid).

I am struggling to be hired to the simplest job despite my CV being actually professionally-tailored to the max and I have still objectively ample job experience so I don't know whassup in that regard since I have already in fact adequately applied more than 200+ jobs iirc this month even actually going to 14 jobs on-site to apply for a job on my area. It's fucking grim.