@holiday

Is a tattoo a red flag even if the tattoo is for you?

Does a tattoo always mean that a woman is bad or is secretly a slut or untrustworthy? What if there is only one tattoo and it is your name (this is the situation with my GF)? Does it show that the woman is unstable and impulsive, or is such a permanent decision a sign that she is totally devoted to you? Or does it show that she is trying desperate measures to try to save a relationship that is doomed to fail?

If I am obliged to answer my own question, I would say that any of the above might be true depending on the situation, but still invite the insight of the other men.

Study the book and come back when you're actually more comfortable discussing this. If a chick you're involved with is looking to get your name tattooed on her body, I can really only say two things. First, kudos to you. Whatever you're doing with her to get her that interested, keep doing it. Second, ask her why she wants your name on her skin before she commits. I had an artist girlfriend who wanted to get my name tattooed on herself. I'd rather a chick have other things to remember me by, so I talked her into joining a drawing class hosted at an arts center I was involved with instead which led to her getting a part-time job assisting a pottery instructor.

@HighBodyCountVirgin

Does TRP have an answer to the legacy/children question?

TRP is focused on the intersexual dynamics aspect, but I haven't ever seen a solid approach on how to have kids which has been the goal since the dawn of time until recent history. Most in TRP are understandably against marriage, or having a kid with a woman, because after all men don't have the same infrastructures and rights to keep their women in check and family together. But if you really want to have kids then whats the approach?

The only thing close to an answer I've read, is the idea of surrogacy overseas where its cheaper, but its still very expensive per child, legally convoluted, and most likely robbing the child of a mother. Moving overseas to find a wife to impregnate isn't it either, I don't want my kids to be growing up as third worlders.

Here's an article that touched on a proposed artificial womb development I shared a few years ago. While the youtube video has since gone private, here's an alt link if the text piques your interest. I expect the technology was already being refined for mass production years before the video was posted.

Outside of the the constant public derision of psychotic females on the forum, we don't often discuss anything that doesn't explicitly help guys understand how to get laid more than once, or twice a year. While chicks may have their baggage, so do a lot of guys.

@Mate1212

Walking away is your biggest power as a man. I've walked away in the past a couple of times. It always hurted even though it was the right thing to do.

Maybe it took longer than it could have. But I always did. Whether it was disrespect from here side, or other opinions of the future together. I've always walked away before getting cheated on.

But It always hurt. It scratched on the "psychological health". Higher bpm when I thought I'm about to end it or I couldn't eat days before ending it.

Older brothers, will this ever stop? Will I ever be able to walk away from a LTR without going through bad / negative emotions?

Some didn't hurt, and some took really long. Where everything was how I wanted it, but she had other plans for the future ( hedonist treadmill / career and I wanted the American dream (stay at home mom)).

Telling yourself that you're strong, when you express sentiments to the contrary isn't a good look. Acknowledging your weakness, as frustrating as it might be, is a necessary step on the journey to realizing the strength you seek to develop in yourself. Own your faults and failings. It's the only way to ensure they can never be used against you. It isn't weakness to process ones feelings of disappointment after a failure, refusing to learn from them is. Learn from the lessons gained through past failures you've endured so that you don't repeat them and can become the man you imagine you might one day become.

Sexual liberation is war. You're a soldier born into a war your parents didn't want you trained or equipped to fight. Now you must hurdle the gatekeepers who obscure this truth from sight.