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Yahh I made that assumption while responding. Realized 80% of my girls come from women I had some slim connection to.
Gut intuition and reputation first and foremost. Most of this is from a small college town of 100k. So while you don't know everybody you're one or two phone calls away from a strangers friend.
Otherwise you can watch how she interacts with other men. Betas she'll abuse and you'll notice her hopping from higher tier guy to higher tier guy but always leaves alone at the end of the night.
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First and foremost im well aware of the only text for logistics but is there any nuance to texting?
For example I lose a lot of girls on the first one or two texts and I don’t have anything to compare it to in terms of response rate, idk if its me or normal. Almost all of these girls who I’ve texted have already agreed to a date.
I literally just say hey it x from so and so where we met. They reply whats I up i give a short answer about what im doing ask hbu and then 3-4 texts having a convo then confirm the plans.
But I lose so many girls simply by saying im doing x wbu. I dont know if im being vague or boring or whatever. I recently read OmLaLa post about texting and saying as few words as possible, but im thinking nowadays girls are so overstimulated that they cant keep there attention on anything that isnt entertaining them.
Is there any merit in sending a more interesting text and then after rapport toning it down.Im not sure if this is just part of the churn. I’ve kind of become jaded now assuming they just met a guy they like better but its just such a dropoff I assume this is the result of infinite options on their end.
Do yall ever give second chances as well as I gain more experience Ive kinda stopped trying again and just pursue a diff girl.
Edit: Title is referring to my texting strategy not overall texting strategy
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Study the book. Use it to help inform your approach going forward. Any further input from us until you've actually done this and seen positive results would be a waste of our time and yours.
The suggestion you refrain from texting is solid practical advice. Others already explained why you should limit texting females to logistics for dates, but you're clearly determined to do your own thing. I doubt it will deliver all the positive outcomes you maybe seeking, but it's your life to live. Best of luck to you out there.
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For me anyway there is just an obvious form of resistance on some benign form of escalation
Like I'll be like "I'm going to grab some water if you want to join" and they say "I'm good" or some bullshit
That's usually the first crack in the wall. Or they will just very clearly start not following the program, refuse an invite to a public party etc
Or their actions and words regarding you specifically just don't align before you've even made a move
They often give away the game early if you're attentive to it
I've tried it in various forms and they still play that game
This doesn't stop their games. If anything it inflates their efforts in trying to get you to sexualize them, to the point I've had more than one of these man eaters begging for it.
Left them high and dry to go fuck women 2-3 points lower on the HB scale every single time.
Multitude of reasons but the main two being, the game is over if I hit, these other women were way less hassle and a lot more likely to be plated.
This was also in my early 20s. Couldn't imagine entertaining these style of games now.
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I like your idea though I've tried it in various forms and they still play that game
Once they have decided they get more satisfaction from liking you but denying you permanently the only effective response is to ghost
I have plenty of other eye candy and I won't settle for eye candy that if gives me the cold shoulder etc
I just leave them behind completely I just have seen it be unworthy of my time
The girl i posted about it is definitely behind me now because I clearly for whatever reason immediately got removed from the IOI category into being ignored. Maybe I look like her ex or a former ONS who knows, her trauma and hamster isn't my problem
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The only real way I've found to invest energy into these types of girls and come out ahead is to flip the script.
Invite them out to events, but make sure she knows it's just as friends. Give her the dance, then walk away. Flirt with her but in a joking manner. No sexual undertone. No sexual energy. After all that’s what she expects.
This is quite genius. Reminds me a lot of the shit OmLaLa used to pull. Maybe I should experiment more with this kind of shit