@mjames5434

Is it okay that I want only virgins for my future wife? It bothers me so much.

I have slept with women from time to time but only for casual fun (they too and they were all non-virgins).

But when it comes to marriage, I cannot help but want only virgin as my future wife.

I want my future wife as pure as possible.

I sometimes imagine myself being married to a non-virgin, possibly very promiscuous one and I just freak out whenever I think that my precious baby who spent 40 weeks in my wife's womb getting cumcoated all the way along my wife's vagina during the birth, all the cum that my wife had received from numerous men of whose names and faces I even never have heard of or seen. It just feels deeply humiliating and I feel I wouldn't be able to truly love my baby if that's the case. It would feel like my baby is a pseudo-bastard.

I may sound like a paranoid. But I just cannot help.

I also think if I get married to a virgin, the bond would be stronger because my wife would know no men other than me.

Is it okay to have this kind of way of thinking? Seriously, I would just not get married if I have to marry a non-virgin.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@holiday

advice ltr with kid

Men,

Seeking advice on how to save this.

Known her since childhood. Our fathers in business together. Our families were close. First love, lost virginity together, everything simple and good. Then our fathers fought. She left easily and coldly as if it had all meant nothing. Heart fucking torn to shreds.

Discover red pill in my anger phase, hate all women for a while, go back and forth between improving myself and wallowing in depression. End up fucking around 70 women over the next two years, unable to have feelings for any of them.

Reconnected with first girl after two years, regularly hate-fuck her. Offered a relationship in a vulnerable moment. She refused, scared of her family's disapproval of me. Still wanted to fuck me on the sly.

Stupidly got her pregnant on purpose with intent to abandon her for revenge. When she did get pregnant I knew I couldn't and decided I would take care of her for the rest of her life if the child was mine. Told her I wanted nothing to do with her pregnancy or baby until I could see a positive paternity test. Cut contact during the pregnancy. She claimed she hadn’t been with anyone else. Paternity tests are not common here and are associated with trashy people on tv shows. Me withdrawing my emotional and financial investment in her until she got one was a huge blow to her and her family, painting her like being a low class whore. Her family furious at both her and me, she had no real support during the pregnancy or the childbirth. Birth was hard 30 hours and she was alone except for medical staff. Claims the experience changed and traumatized her. When she called to tell me the baby was born, coldly told her I would get involved when the paternity test was done.

Paternity test positive. Moved her into my house. Being a good father. My love for her and our son runs deep. She is an excellent and loving mother. I provide her with stability and a stay at home mom life. Made her life relatively easy and comfortable. We get along. We have good sex. But she is extremely stoic like a man. Bitterness runs beneath the surface. The dread during the pregnancy and birth affected her too much. Hair falling out, way too much weight loss, hollow eyes, not eating or sleeping much, not taking care of herself. The way other women yell and cry and let their feelings out would be a thousand times better than this lingering tension and mistrust.

Fear she’ll leave again, maybe with the child. She’s afraid I’ll do it first. Her family hates me. Were very close to me when I was a kid. Might turn her against me.

How to act? How much alpha attraction, how much compassion/comfort?

Wishing to restore what’s broken, innocence and trust we used to have.

To answer my own question: Will try going 80% alpha strength and 20% beta comfort. Just a guess. Know women more likely to stay with bad man they respect than nice man they don't. Have hunch it would be good to bring on this kind of yelling and crying emotional way that most women act when they are upset. It is cathartic for women to let that out, no? It is better than her putting on a front and bottling up her stress and wasting away, no? Asking other men for more suitable advice. Would not bother posting if I could figure it out on my own. I want to love her. Are women not diabolical if men must hold back the fullness of our love in order to earn their respect?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@mrone667

What am I missing here guys ?

I had pulled a girl without trying, she apparently into my looks. I was detached, I kissed her on first hangout (not even a date). but I found her cute asf so I confessed that I'm open for maybe a commitment. and BOOM she started to ghost me lol. Did I just approved of her too soon ? Im trynna learn here fuck her tho, sincerely XD .

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@iautrptgl

Is it still possible for an overweight guy to be successful with women?

In recent years I felt out of the red pill/manosphere but have recently been reignited and have decided to recommit. The issue is in recent years I have gained a fair amount of weight, I do gym consistently and have a decent amount of muscle, but I’d say I have a layer of blubber around my stomach/chest (I am 5’10, 220lbs and around 25% bf).

This extra weight has definitely affected my confidence when it comes to approaching, so I’m interested to see what the community thinks regarding male weight. I think it will essentially come down to a question of how strong the fat man’s (me) frame is, if he is confident enough and practice the correct techniques he should still be successful. However there is also the truth that fat is not as attractive as ripped, and would be interested to see how the community views it

After you put together a diet and exercise plan to help you shed those unwanted pounds, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Jocbro

What causes women to ghost a "High value male"?

For context — I’m 6'2, fit, make close to seven figures, drive a supercar, own my house, and I’m often told I'm handsome (can verify all of this if it sounds like BS). I get that all of that’s superficial, but it’s what women typically say they want in an “ideal man.”

Still, I’ve got dozens of texts (unprovoked) from girls saying they had an amazing date and wanted to see me again… only to ghost or cancel right after making plans.

It’s not like I’m retarded socially or talk politics — first dates are light, fun, and easy.

I’ve even had one girl (later found out she was bipolar) confirm second date, then disappear the next day.

I don’t get it. Intimidation seems too easy an answer — and I doubt most of these women are meeting guys who check more boxes.

That thinking is entirely dependent on the assumption modern women are working down the same exact checklist you are. Unfortunately, while females are generally understood to make terrible decisions, with what you've said over the years it might be time for you to actually consider that they maybe seeking radically different criteria than yourself.

While you may possess traits many men may otherwise see as good, it doesn't necessarily mean modern females in our spiritually demoralized-spiritually lobotomized society will see the man you are as embodying the ideals they've been indoctrinated to seek. Being malleable, or easy to manipulate, is something modern women are encouraged to seek in all men, whether high value or not, and that's one of many traits you seem to lack.

Unfortunately, the traits seen as ideal for modern women to seek in men are some red pill men are actively discouraged from developing, if not abandoning should they realize they have them. This is why so many commenters in RP aware circles encourage hedonism, it distracts you from engaging in any critical analysis necessary to understand the evil of clown world and who rules it. A man who seeks the truth is the most dangerous in a society that openly peddles lies to obscure the truth from sight. Eventually, you will understand this, and come to see gatekeepers as obstacles to be hurdled, or destroyed, if not actively ignored as they are nothing more than the half-witted agents of the diabolical.

@folamour22

Copenhagen vs Munich vs Vienna vs Dublin vs London

Which do you reckon would be the best dating life long term, to ideally also find a wife? This is considering if you had to choose between each of these cities to relocate to for better career options as a EU passport holder. I know neither are the best for dating necessarily, but I have to do it for the money career wise to level myself up financially, and since they all have pretty much similar high-level offers, the choice boils down to life outside of work. Right now, I live in a Mediterranean country in Europe but find the career prospects to be quite low and I narrowed it down to these cities in terms of job opportunity. But I also want to balance it out in terms of life outside of work because not everything is about money. Any experiences in these cities from your side?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@MobusBobus Don't fucking do it.

we just happen to work in the same building/space

You said "in my office".

You literally have women from another company in your office?

Look, don't do it. Even if you really are just sharing an office, it's going to be very awkward when it ends. And you always have to plan for when it ends.

Even if you don't value your job - the fact that you share an office and she has to regularly see you motivates her to run revenge on you after the relationship ends, in order to get rid of you, because of the awkwardness.

This is how women operate. When the relationship ends, if you are still around there is a 90% chance she will try to get rid of you or destroy you, because at that point you are an emotional threat to her.

She is more likely to make false claims against you if she has a reason or benefit from doing so.

@MobusBobus

Here are two approaches:

1. Next time you find one going out of her way to come around, say something like “Did you just check me out?” and smile. If she admits it or agrees in any way, then tell her “Buy me a drink for my birthday”. Her: “When’s your birthday?” You: “Take me out and I’ll tell you. Here’s my number.”

If she avoids it or says “No I wasn’t checking you out” then respond with. “Ok, maybe it’s just me then” and walk away. Wait for her to try to process that. If she at any time asks you “what did you mean by that?” Tell her “Take me out for a birthday drink and I’ll tell you.” See above for the rest.

1. Ask your target for advice. Next time you see her, tell her you need some advice. Ask her when she has some time. Go to the local lunch place or coffee and invite her. Then make up some bs about dating older women in your 20’s. Something like “I am not sure how old you are, so I intend no disrespect here, but you look like you know what you want in life. I’m interested in an older woman and i want to get close to her, like real close, like sexual addiction close. What’s my best first move”. Then take it from there.

Good luck. let me know how it goes.

AND, as @typo-MAGAshiv said Do NOT shit where you eat. Be very careful.