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There's so much I missed on here over the last few days. I doubt I'll catch up, so I'm not even going to try very hard.
@Kloi @bozza already nailed it
I want a woman who is so into me that she can't keep her hands off. I'll suss out her past later.
The one who makes you wait?
1) There's at least 1 guy in her past she didn't make wait (Rollo's proverbial "hot guy at the foam cannon party")
2) she not that into you if she's wanting to make you wait
The American South had to get dragged kicking and screaming at the point of cannons to end formal slavery within the USA,
So what? The fact remains that white people have ended that vile practice everywhere we could.
Hell, if anything, the fact that we were willing to fight our own kind over it^1 is another feather in our cap. You don't see the black natives in South Africa fighting each other over the Boers' right to live; nope, they are united in their desire to "Kill the farmer! Kill the Boer!"
1 - note acknowledging to fellow history nerds that slavery was a tiny issue in the War of Northern Aggression, and to the Confederacy the issue of States' Rights (each state being sovereign within its borders and the federal government only controlling interstate commerce and common defense) and the issue of Southern States consistently getting overruled in Congress due to the population difference were both far more important.
and the attitude of presumptive superiority and dominion over black people still lives on today in huge numbers of the people there. I know this because they frequently blurt it out publicly from their own mouths.
Bullshit.
I have lived in the South my entire life, minus a brief stint at Fort Lewis.
The stereotype of nothing but racist rednecks is bullshit.
One of my best friends in college was a Canadian citizen of Indian descent, and when his family was supposed to move from Toronto to Atlanta, he was scared shitless because of that stereotype. He figured all the anti-Indian racism he had experienced in Toronto would be just a warmup.
Imagine his surprise that after his first 6 years in the Atlanta area, the only racism he experienced there was at the hands of a Cuban immigrant!
Have you ever been to the South? Or do you get all your info from schlock like "The Beverly Hillbillies" and "The Dukes of Hazzard"?
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Read MoreIM MAXIM #5: “The feminine wants a guardian and the masculine wants to guard. The problem is, neither can happen without trust. The sexes have always found it difficult to trust one another, but courtesy of feminism, they have never trusted each other less.”
6 “There is an immutable animosity between the sexes that serves as the conduit for all distrust. This animosity flows from the inability of the sexes to reconcile their fundamentally opposed sexual strategies. For a man’s optimal sexual strategy to thrive, the woman’s must suffer. For a woman’s optimal sexual strategy to thrive, the man’s must suffer. Each sex is determined not to suffer, and so both inflict suffering on the other in a perverse determination not to suffer themselves; this is the battle of the sexes, this is reproductive war.”
@TheRedPike one of my favorite movies ever.
Everyone who knows me IRL tells me that the centurion correcting Brian's Latin must have been based on me, though I was an infant when they filmed it.
A) what @Stigma said
B) I was simply pointing out that if one wants to criticize all of white people because of the crimes of a few, then we should hold other races to the same standard, and that they lose a side-by-side comparison. Further, if we also look at the positive contributions of each race, we also outpace all others.
C) on top of that, it's not like anyone got to choose what race they were born into, so the whole "blame an entire group for the sins of a few" thing is fucking stupid. I mean, unless black people are going to pay reparations to everyone else for all the crime they commit...
OK, you have to admit that's a bit of a weak argument.
Not at all.
If we're going to play identity politics, we should look at each race's positive contributions as well as negative.
And we as a race have ended the vile practice of slavery wherever we could, while other races not only participated but continue to practice it today.
"It's not that the drug dealer cultivated the puppy and harvested the opium, no, he bought it from the farmers"...
Terrible analogy, but to run with it:
If the opium farmers were complaining about their own customers as if their customers caused all the world's ills, it might almost fit.
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@Bozza >She then puts on the fake shock face "Bozza!". Didn't really think much of it at the time, but her demeanor subtly changed after that. Nothing terrible, but I think the subtext of "you can be replaced" did upset her though she didn't want to show it.
If she ever comes back to it I'd gaslight "I said it? No way, why would I do it? remind me what did you say'. With pressure flip. Her qoting her threat shouldn't be appealing to her and she should drop the subject out of discomfort.
If she doesn't feel discomfort thinking about quoting her threat and then dropping the subject, then she gives some more information about her character.
She might also try to lie but then I'd say 'I dont remember but it is not that, try again', she probably knows by then you know and only toying with her.
The downside of 'then go' it might sound butthurt.
By saying please in these circumstances you have invited problems.
I'd go for funny amplify and use please on interactions next time. But postfactum.
Mid-Skullfucking while choking her with a dick and holding down - can I throat fuck you please? I will be real gentle, please. Etc
Might depend on a girl and a frame
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