@adam-l maybe a better way to put it would be "enjoy your life in spite of the decline"?

@polishknight even before Red Pill, I never understood sending money to strangers who begged on the internet. Fuck, most RL panhandlers just take their cash to buy lotto tickets, drugs, and/or booze.

@goreandmills To be fair, that dude overreacted a bit without letting her explain.

She still should have seen something like that coming even if the new guy was gay. Most men aren't going to be happy at the idea of yet another guy joining the group while on a date, especially if his date is the one bringing over the new man. Too many millennials have shitty social skills, and the younger generations are looking even worse.

@MarkedAliveS

confident AF means pain in the ass

Usually, yes. Especially when a woman says it.

Additionally, I have found confidence is one of those "show, don't tell" traits (much like intelligence or kindness or loyalty), and that those who have to say "I'm confident" are usually more accurately described as thin veneer of arrogance masking deep insecurity.

Those who truly are confident don't feel the need to tell others that they are.

@First-light

It is up to the individual man what he thinks he ought to do about it

The best Red Pill and manosphere content always does that. Hypothetical imperatives instead of categorical imperatives, eg "do x if you want y" instead of "you must do x!"

@First-light

I always recommend some cardio vascular fitness but that is not something everyone here is as keen on.

Most people on here (at least from what I've seen) would recommend including cardio, but would say that lifting is more important. If you only have time for one, lift.

And in the particular case of OP, start eating right and stop skipping leg day.

Happy Thanksgiving, bitches!