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@slutmagazine That chastising reddit post was completely mirroring how I know my father to be. I also know that the TV, New York Times Android app, etc all just tell him to be this exact way. It's internalized. So even other issues aside, you're not going to have a programmed person like that believing that someone, their child or otherwise, is causing their continued suffering through selfishness without that boiling out in useless impotent insanity. I'm not talking about #BiteTheFace useful controlled insanity, but just a slow simmering rage. They are fully captured people. I think that the Plato's Cave is the perfect analogy here because they truly hate the normal people who are just doing the old inane beep-bopping around town.
A friend of mine was just punched last night while sitting with a chick outside of her apartment. I told him to take control of the situation but he wanted to "just hang out". He is recovering from a small surgery so wasn't super great though. So a dude punched him but he wasn't in a position to fight back because that would have been a bad idea for him. She was literally sitting downstairs of her commie block apartment with a boyfriend upstairs presumably waiting for her.
Chicks are super scandalous here about using dudes for making their boyfriends mad to lock them down in committing harder. It works though because the guys were aparently beat down too much from communism to be able to put it all together.
It gets better because this chick sent naked pics to him but instead of going for the kill he puppy dogged it. The only plausible out is his recovery, but it's just puss behavior. If he would have taken control of the situation, refused to go exactly where she wanted him to go for her own reasons, then he would have avoided that situation (of being punched) and he would have had much more chance of success.
In Eastern Europe in a nearby area I once had a chick message me out of the blue at 9pm to ask me out while I was lying in bed in underwear. By the time that I had put on my pants she told me that her boyfriend wouldn't like it if she met me. Apparently soon after her boyfriend got tired of her antics and broke up with her. She let me know and then I fucked her that night. Right after I came she started crying because I guess that she was young and sex (of any sort) reminded her of her ex-boyfriend.
I don't have a strong point to make other than the fact that if you are going to show up for the quick lay with a new chick then be ready for her to be using you for some other purpose than sex and money. Dudes don't have a problem being used for sex, so they focus on not being scammed for money, but there is a whole other aspect to shit that chicks can pull. That is even without it being a premeditated lawsuit type situation because they don't even have that over here.
Also if you are outside with a new chick be ready for a guy to try to bop you on the head. If I'm walking by myself not lusting for women, not glaring at dudes, watching for bad dudes, etc then I can be almost universally safe, but if a new woman is in the picture then you just have to be more alert. I think that I've developed a sixth sense for it by backpacking over four continents and getting action. I get bored with the sophisticated good life so I try to mix it up with poets, philosophers, revolutionaries, tattooed women, smoking women, etc. So you just have to know how not to get bopped on the head by a dude.
About my friend who was punched last night. He likes to tell himself stories and so when an angry guy was coming at him he told himself a cute little story so that he would feel better about the hostility that he was facing. If he was prepared the guy very likely wouldn't have struck him. I wouldn't have been struck. In such a situation being like the dog is the best way to be. You can't approach a dog aggressively while saying "I love you sweet doggy" and expect it to respond according to your words. So stop thinking and feel. That is why I say #BiteTheFaceRead More