Women are by nature complaint and conformist. This is something we hear a lot about in the manosphere.

As a result of this being an agreed truth, we can tend to think that a man who does not have women being complaint and submissive to him in all things either is weak or has the wrong (damaged) women. Sometimes this is absolutely true. There are a lot of weak men and damaged woman about these days but I am inviting you to consider whether really we are not always looking at the real primary object of women’s natural compliance and this can lead to reading them and some of their aims wrong.

Women are not actually by nature particularly complaint to men (as most men who have been married for a decade or two will tell you). Where did that submissive girl who always put out and just wanted to hang about and be your dad’s help mate go? I don’t know but she sure as hell isn’t your mother.

In fact I find it little wonder that the bible, the qu’ran and traditional marriage ceremonies say a woman must obey her husband. Women need to be reminded of this by society. The bible and quran do not tell them to be popular with the girls or dress smartly. This sort of compliance, by contrast, just comes naturally all through female life.

Women are primarily complaint to the group's rules and ideals. If the group says a good woman runs a smart home and raises a large brood of children while obeying her husband, successful women do just this (as can be seen in traditional cultures around the world). If the group says successful women do not cook, obey men or have children until they are nearly 40. They go to college, get top grades and get great jobs, that is what successful women will do here in the west.

Consider female dress codes and modesty codes. They differ hugely around the world. Only brazen hussies flagrantly break the codes. All normal successful young women try to fly close to the limits of the code to maximise the emphasis of their worth. All normal mothers fear their daughters taking this too far. Why? Because to fall outside group norms is the worst thing they could do. Conform first, try to stand out only within the rules.

Anyone who has been a teacher has seen female compliance and conformity in action. Set a class homework and the girls produce a very neat version of what they think you wanted them to do. Some will get it perfect. The boys by contrast are a mixed bag. None of them is ever as neat as a neat girl. Some are lazy, some are dumb, some are very abrupt and brief but some show sparks of genius that show you things you didn't even think of when you set the homework. The girls made it their purpose to give you what they thought they were supposed to do.

Women do what they think they are supposed to in their culture. This is where most of a woman's free energy goes, from the selfies to show the perfect life to the makeup to the bitching and encouraging in friend groups, it is all about being the best version you can be of what you are supposed to be. This is why little girls in the west want to be something very different to little girls in traditional cultures. The innermost female desire is not to marry a strong man and submit to him, its to submit to what society expects of them and do it in way that raises their status.

Why? Well probably the biggest reason is that women by their nature cannot contribute as much to a group as men -they lack the emotional and physical strength that men have. They are more needy by nature. So, what they can give to the group is being a good supportive group member and by doing so securing value for themselves. Women are the moral guardians of a culture. Victorian women were all about the image of the angel of the hearth. Western women today are all about the girl boss. Mormon women from polygamous families are generally content as faithful co-wives. Some of their distant cousins in Salt lake city ride the cock carousel hard. Same genetics, same country, same state even. The women have simply become what they have been praised for being.

Women do great in stable cultures. They comply and receive praise. When a culture gets unstable and there is no longer a clear lead on what you should be complying to, then oh dear oh dear! This is women today. Anxious, unsure, victims full of frustration, disappointment and rage. What can we learn form this? Women will try hard for people or institutions that will take them where they want to go, to become more successful at being good group members. This is why girls try hard with their homework and rarely show either innovative genius or bad attitude. This is why women go to college and get what are seen as solid white collar jobs. This is why Christian women practise being saccharine sweet at church and why foul activist feminists are so utterly objectionable. She is being what the group wants her to be.

This is also why they are so keen to please in new relationships. It is not that they fall harder into love than men. It is that they feel that a high quality man will take them where they want to go -to have more success. Women crave whatever is seen as success and they will gas up any vehicle that will take them towards it. A man makes his own success. A woman wants to ride your success and at first she is very happy to gas you up to do that. Later when you have taken her to new heights, well she has her agenda beyond fuelling you.

There is some truth in “She will be who you want her to be” but it only really works long term if what you want her to be is also what her group wants her to be.

A woman can jump ship to your group. Women are good at completely breaking and re-starting but it is more like pressing a re-set button in the female mind not a gradual transition. However, to do this you will need to get her to buy in early if this is to be the case. If you continue to keep her in her group and you in yours, she will struggle because she wants to be a good girl and be what her group expects her to be and this will trump you in the end as her first loyalty is to her hive.