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@Mountainman No doubt you've been dealing with some heavy stuff lately. These things obviously affect a person - hopefully just for a while though.
I second @typo-MAGAshiv on No More Mr Nice Guy. That + When I Say No should get you well started on your people pleasing tendencies.
If your family dynamic has generally been dysfunctional/toxic (I realize the recent context is not normal), therapy might be worth considering as well. Mental scripts from our formative years tend to take deep roots in our psyche. They might not serve you well.
But also, just generally get things in order, and live a good life. Getting your own place sounds good. King of your own castle, and all that...God, I miss that peace (married w/ kids).
@Typo-MAGAshiv definitely, and I haven't read the sidebar yet. I do agree with the whole 'women seeing me as a nice guy' thing - it's just how I come off because of the way I was raised. It's disgusting and fake and I'm slowly unlearning it, but it isn't easy. I generally don't try to chat up women either, I'm very quiet so they ignore me.
But yeah, overall, I want to give them a taste of their own medicine ngl idk who decided that women need to have this much power at all, that needs to be stopped immediately. I've found that attention is like crack to them and if you ignore a good looking woman they'll go postal af. Fucking pathetic, but that's women for you ig
And ngl man, I have no idea where to begin with game and all that stuff. I'm an introvert in general, being around people is exhausting. And I just don't like talking to people either. Don't like them very much. So yeah.
Fellow introvert here. Also a misanthrope.
You'll need to get good at it. It's an essential life skill.
Once you start getting good at it, you'll find you enjoy it more than you expect. You'll still need your alone time, but you'll come to enjoy the connections you make (sexual, platonic, professional, etc).
Start small. Read books on being a good conversationalist. I'm sure there are YouTube channels on the topic as well.
And always leave time for yourself. Don't try to become an extrovert when you just aren't; treat conversing as a skill. Nothing more or less.
Read More@Mountainman just so you know:
1) the guy you're replying to spams that stupid book at every opportunity
2) almost every active user on this site has him blocked and/or is blocked by him
3) he's probably a virgin, and thus clueless on what works
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