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@redpillschool I can't get on with wifi. At all.
Using mobile data now, but I don't have the hours of free time I did this morning to experiment with the site to see if everything is working correctly and to reply to shit going back to last week.
The grocery store.
If I was ever single again, and felt like dating, I would look there.
If you have enough skill to either ask some good food related questions or give advice on preparing dishes, you won't go hungry as she might feed you or you feed her.
A useless failure of a woman.
It's sad really. 100 years ago, some guy would have got her as a wife at 18, she wouldn't have had the boss babe lifestyle, excessive luxuries, modern convenience, and social media to distract her from her duties at home.
There are millions of other women in these lonely holding patterns, and it will get worse before it gets better.
up is cheating but where is that line? Is accepting birthday wishes cheating?
no
Should I be having hard boundaries for this? Im not sure where to set the boundaries for these kind of things as there are 2 ways to look at it. One is that she replies with a harmless "Thank You" and thats that no harm no foul
right
but we all know when we reach out to a girl after a while its never with pure innocent intent and its never for "being nice" and if she does reply we do think that we have a shot with her but also she should not reply at all which is the more respectful option and one that I would prefer.
no ongoing convo beyond that
Now I dont know if I am being a bitch about this but I feel that I should have very high standards for an LTR. For context this girl has been very respectful so far, does not entertain other guys at all and has a strong belief that you should not be talking to your former partners/hookups. She also has a low n-count (3 including me)
3 inc you? unlikely.
and we both are in our early 20s. So my 2 questions are as follows :
1) How do I set boundaries for events like these which are so much in the gray
Tell her..... "it's not ok to have an ongoing convo with an ex."
2) Should I end things and consider this cheating if her ex does hit up and she does end up replying
Depends. If it's low key "not interested" replies, fine. Actual convo: not fine.
She won't agree....... she will consider it all totally fine, even up to him sliding his dick back into her.
Honestly...... if this is an issue for you, an LTR isn't for you.
Read More@Bozza You can have the tren, my friend. I have never had a desire to try it, and at my age, overall health is more important. My background is in powerlifting, and even enhanced lifters I knew kept things pretty basic. Tren wasn't common. I've heard it is quite effective, though.
Men paying for everything is so 1950's. I thought Feminists didn't want to go back to the gender roles of the 1950's.
OF or prostitution is like buying groceries. You get to see what the product is, how much it costs, and you have a pretty solid idea of what you're getting when you fork over the cash.
Going on a date has more in common with a job interview than grocery shopping. You go on a date to figure out if the person is right for you, they do the same to you, and in many cases one or both of you will decide to not move forward. Do you see any applicants throwing money at companies just to get interviewed? Of course not, that would turn job hunting into a pseudo-gambling dynamic that would encourage companies to do interviews even with applicants they're not really interested in hiring. And THAT is why some men will spend thousands on pussy (insane if you ask me, but besides the point) while asking you to split the bill on a date. With the former, they're buying a clearly-labeled product; with the latter, they have no clue what they're getting, if anything at all.
Not to mention that the only reason men paying for 100% of the bill was ever a thing is because in traditional relationships, men brought in most of the income, whereas women brought most of the house labor. This social contract has been eradicated with feminism, so why should men be expected to continue doing their part of the contract?
Read More@Bozza When you consider that the average healthy male produces 42 to 49 mg of test a week and 70 is the usual natural ceiling, you seem good evidence that even at high doses Test is not the bogey man the left would say it is.
Misandry is quite deep in our culture.
I think when it comes to risk taking dopamine is a huge contributor. Getting a large dopamine reward for a risk taking behaviour makes risk basically a drug. I think it shows up quite well with what cabergoline can do to change someone's risk taking personality. But also when you just think about the kind of guy who naturally gets/ craves plenty of dopamine, that life and soul of the party guy, craving stimulation, he does seem to naturally take quite a lot of risks in life.
