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@Bozza South Africa is awesome, the weather is awesome. Lots of fruits, veggies, and livestock. Corruption, crime, here there, and remnants of a collapsed apartheid goverment. Alien conspiracies in the Drakensberg Mountains, South Africa also holds the largest concentration of ancient human ancestral remains in the world. It also possess some of the best wine and beer in my opinion, there's lots of spots to go for vacation. There's lots of buried gold yet to be discovered all around the Kruger. South Africa is pretty cool.
Hospital equivalent of a restaurant’s dishwasher and paid about the same. Nothing wrong with either job, but calling it a passion or dedication at 37 is wild.
She’s 5’7”, so wanting the man to be at least 5’10” isn’t so bad. She doesn’t look obese, so she shouldn’t be too tough for a man to lift. The ridiculous expectations that should have been underlined were honest, hardworking, and future together.
Can't add much that hasn't already been said. Read the sidebar and get to work.
One thing to note is that you're only 19yo. That's young as fuck. I was still a virgin at your age. But I implemented strategies to improve myself that I learned from this forum and TRP adjacent sources. I started getting mad pussy throughout my 20s. So keep your head up and know that there will still be plenty of opportunities for you.
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I have a new motorcycle!
She is so goddamn pretty. I can't wait to take her for a proper spin.
Jeez. OP, you are still in bad shape. The first thing you need to do is fix your mental health. I recall from a previous post about a month ago that you have a variety of traumas and obsessions (like gooning and women). You need to get that sorted out first.
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Yes, I know you are Punjabi. Yes, I know you are 5’7”. I know that makes things ultra hard mode for you, that’s exactly the opposite of most girls’ first choice.
I understand you are getting bullshit treatment from girls no matter what you do (ghosted, blocked, rejected, etc). That you don’t even have the money to betabux or hire actual whores.
The reality is: it will be fucking hard for you no matter what. I see two choices:
(1) commit yourself to improving. This will take years: you will need to improve mental health first. Then gym and social skills. And working on studying, then money in parallel. And again, it will be hard. You will not have a straight and easy path. There will be lots and lots of bad times.
(2) surrender your desire. If you are really so undisciplined, and your situation is so bad you truly believe you can’t change it, then quit trying. And give up on ever having girls or getting your shit together. But that also means no more complaining about girls rejecting you, no more complaining that gym is hard, no more complaining about anxiety or social media. Truly surrendering your desire is extremely difficult, probably harder than (1). And in your heart, I don’t think you want to give up what you want. Even if you say you will surrender today, I bet you will be back on this forum posting a similar thing again in a month.
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Side note:
Yes, you should go to the gym 3 times a week. Yes you should be studying most days. But even doing gym once a week and studying twice a week is better than nothing.
You don’t need to come here and panic to us after one month because things are not going perfect. One month is too little time to see the real big results.
You literally have posted 5 times in the last 3 months with something similar to this. Patience. Patience with yourself and the process. You aren’t going from loser incel to Chad in 1 month. Heck, you aren’t going to get a single girl for at least a year, given how bad your mental state is. Patience. You are only 19.
Read MoreSeriously, though: I'd maneuvered the bike into the pictured position and went to rest it on the kickstand. Only I'm an idiot and the kickstand wasn't down, so down I went with the bike.
A brand new bike. One I haven't even ridden yet. It has 8 miles on it. And my dumb ass went and fell onto concrete underneath it, breaking the top of my left femur.
What's worse, one of the headlight mounts broke and there were some fluid spots underneath it. Sadly, I couldn't pick it back up because I couldn't stand, but the EMTs were very helpful on that count. The dealership is sending a trailer to pick it up tomorrow and see what the damage is.
And I'm once again naked underneath a hospital gown awaiting an operation tomorrow morning.
@woodsmoke Sheesh that is some bad luck! If you hadn't been excited about the bike, I bet you would have remembered about the kickstand. Its tough to suffer just because you were happy and let go. Men get few chances in life to be happy just for themselves and let go. You appear to be taking it remarkably well. I hope you heal fast.
Aye. I had it all planned out too. I'd park the bike under the carport there and surprise my folks when they got home. Then I'd ride it into town tomorrow morning and surprise my buddies. Then into work on Monday and surprise the guys there. Rounding out with riding it to visit a friend lives a couple hours away.
Instead I had to tell 'em all what I wrote above. "Best laid plans" indeed.
Fortunately I don't have to worry about paying for storage. I can just lock it up and throw it under a tarp for the winter under the carport there. Benefit of living in a big two story house was originally purchased to raise an equally big Mormon family.
...also, I have a broken femur.
Again.
Yes, it's the same one.
Different spot this time, though. I think that means I get another spot on my punch card.
