@Eurm

How do you guys do it with chores at home? We both work the equal amount of hours

Do you believe it should be 50/50? Or a man will lift and fix stuff while the woman is more into cleaning etc?

Curious to hear your toughts

50/50 and other modernist egalitarian concepts of equality are generally "nice" ideas in many instances, but like most of modernity, nicety tends to mask the dis-genuine interests and insincerity of other people. You're not going to find many married women willing to lug around several hundred pounds of groceries into the family home every month these days to restock the pantry, fridge, and freezer, if she has a man she can task with such errands. It won't matter if that woman has access to steel shopping carts and a payload capable motor-vehicle to do the bulk of the hauling. Even if that man is a soft-handed scrawny educated professional, females instinctively expect to be able to utilize the labor of men they have access to, to maintain or enhance their quality of life.

As a male you're going to find yourself doing the bulk of any chores and errands which require any lifting whether or not a female is an active beneficiary or participant to the task, whether in a relationship or not. As all relationships are a balance of give and take, if you've somehow failed to define the negligible amount of give you're willing to provide in response to her desire to take, then you two will eventually have problems. Hence why so many people refer to give and take as a game.

It's in relationship situations like these that you will primarily encounter the first signs of trouble in short falls in your woman's style of communication that you will need to invest the time to train her out of. If those communication failings persist once you believe you've effectively instructed her otherwise, you will need to eventually eject the female from the relationship, or pack up your things and leave, as you will find such actions moving forward in the relationship as nascent signs of contempt when they escalate.

A female that has contempt for male companionship and authority is a venomous viper. This is also why you'll never go a year without reading of stories of wives who left their husbands for a plumber, electrician, tradesman/contractor of some sort, and so on.

cc: @Wokedown

@WokeDown I consider it an extinction burst of the effects of institutionalized homophobia. I've known people who from childhood felt born in the wrong body and identified as the other gender. This is going back to the 1980s, when there was NO outside support or incentive to do so from any quarter.

Nowadays, gay and TS/TG people have large communities and lots of social support from within and without. Most of them are like anyone else you'd meet or do business with, and it doesn't matter who they sleep with because this never comes up in NORMAL interaction.

I think the current power and social cachet they currently enjoy is a response to actual discrimination and injustices that still exist but have diminished greatly over the last 20 years or so. Another generation from now, I think they'll be widely considered normal and accepted, which will organically take away the special privileged status that drives all the current attention.

People who take a broad anti-gay position, and without cause lump them together with pedophiles and rapists (sound familiar, straight men?) unwittingly strengthen and perpetuate the "special" status they resent seeing so much.

I am thinking of a funny rant someone posted online once. A gay guy, say 40s and in a steady relationship, during a casual conversation with cohorts, complained about people responding to questions like "How's your son doing?" with "STRAIGHT!" He said it's received as weird and creepy as if he asked an acquaintance in casual conversation, "How's your Grandma?" and they responded, "Well she's getting up into her late 80s, so probably pretty dry down there. Better bring some lube!" What answer did they think he was seeking? "Yeah, he's looking good in the shower, those pubes are coming in real nice!"

Conflating ALL gay people with the exploitative, pedophilic, and rapey ones dilutes efforts against and actually works to SHIELD the individuals who actually do these things.

Strange to me, the way a group of men like ourselves, who face targeted discrimination, open season for attack from broader society, and legal and social institutions strongly and openly biased against them, will gleefully turn and perpetrate these same behaviors upon gay people.

Gay men are natural allies of the RP manosphere. People obviously have NO CLUE how much of a cultural coup it would be for us to "steal" their allegiance from "the left." Instead, large numbers of us fight "a culture increasingly hostile to men" by being "a culture increasingly hostile to gay men." Even as we lose battle after battle, and get walled and quarantined away from participating in and thus influencing the larger culture.

Can someone explain to me how and why trannies got all this power in the west all of a sudden? Or at least their handlers because these people heavy into self-mutilation are too fucked up to really coordinate anything longterm imo.

Growing up in the early 90s, these people were just considered freaks, you'd randomly hear about ladyboys in Thailand or something, and I think that perception persisted up to 2008 before the ubiquity of social media 2.0. And now, boom, they're everywhere. At least in the media. Idk how people accept such a niche and mentally deranged population shaping public policy, on well, anything.

I have fortunately met only very few and one online former acquaintance (gaming) that turned just disgusts me, he turned in prison where he was in for watching kid diddling. Before that, he was a father and afaik he didn't fuck with his kids, I hope to god not but not privy to details. Anyway, he got out and hit me up on social media with a wig on. I just feel sorry for his son.