She slept with another guy when we were on a break
Long story short, she was travelling out of country for a couple of months and found out I was messing around with other women. We fought over the phone, made up, but fought again a few days later and stopped talking for two weeks. Called her again, she said she thought we’re not in a relationship anymore and that we can discuss it after she comes back. A month passes, she’s back home, we get back together. She says she hasn’t been with anyone after me and so we became very serious, eventually plan for a future together. This was many months ago. Today I found out she actually did fuck a guy during those two weeks. I did tell her when we first started dating that I won’t take her back if she ever slept with anyone other than me. What should I do with her? I know that I can’t in good conscience ever be serious with this chick anymore, but she is very submissive, a fantastic fuck, good conversationalist and intelligent. I’m considering the following options: 1) break up immediately, 2) tell her I forgive her and nothing changed but actually look for a replacement while still fucking her, 3) tell her that we can still be together but from now on I’ll be seeing other women, while she still has to be exclusive with me. I imagine she will lose any respect for me if I continue as if nothing happened. Her main point is that she thought we were done and never getting back together, but after that last call after the two weeks and after fucking that guy she realized that “she still loves me” and didn’t fuck anybody else for that last month, which of course she could be fucking dozens of guys because she also had tinder installed and claims to have only used it to get attention.
Study the book and take this as a lesson learned in why you don't take ex's back. You two will always remember the discordant things that prompted you to end things. Sure, you can bang from time to time, as you both feel inclined, but whatever the relationship was, will never be again. She had her chance and blew it. Move on.
Read MoreHow can you combine Christianity and redpill? Redpill move would be spinning the plates until you settle.
But this is probably against Christianity.
What have you been taught regarding Christianity that would bring you to this bizarre conclusion?
@Typo-MAGAshiv the Playlist is at least 8 hours of content! It can be listed to like a podcast which is what I do as I work around the homestead. Every so often there are pictures and video supporting the verbal narrative, that are worth seeing where possible.
@Stigma man, the Paddington movie is about the most male-friendly movie that was done in the past 20 years.
Movies nowadays are rabid against men. There not a modicum of pro-male sentiment in any of the latest movies I've watched.
This is literally nazi-level propaganda.
There's a lot of talk from my fellow American right-wingers about Michelle Obama being a tranny. It's just as stupid.
Strong disagree. In MO's case, there was no basis for it, just dislike for her intense enough that they would run with any absurd thing "against" her.
In the case of Bridgette Macron, it's an absolutely crazy rabbit hole with lots and lots of supporting evidence, and official responses that only support the conspiracy theorists rather than simply and conclusively refute them directly with evidence.
I watched this playlist of Candace Owens' coverage of the topic, and agree with the common remark about it: you may start listening not believing it at all, but by the end you'll find it difficult to not find yourself convinced.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDOnxpViQxY&list=PLPW2eH9z9CUvJ0Iiv9AQqq2RVAWFFfNZR
Read MoreHow do you get over ex Marrying?
I saw the girl who was my only semi long-term relationship got married after a year of dating.
I cared about her a lot, more than a should of though at least part of that was due to her being one of the few women actually liked me(for a while anyway).
It's kind of fucked me up.
The only way to get over your ex's is to live your life understanding that a woman's role in your life is to be a companion, not the priority mission. That you allowed yourself to remain aware of goings on in her life while living yours after the breakup is messed up in a masochistic way. When you split with someone, whether they cut ties with you, or you cut ties with them, you should at some point accept that it's over and move on with your life. That's not something you can easily do if you keep things that she gave you around your home, or take her phone calls. Even harder to do if she's still on your social media contacts. Doubly so, if you didn't drop any of her friends from your contacts when the relationship ended.
She moved on a while ago, it's long overdue you do the same.
After you've taken the time to remove those reminders from your life, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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