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@Chantfire I'm currently considering monk mode. When dealing with pain (insatisfaction with life, breakups, loss) it feels like the most reasonable solution for men. We're too hurt to date again unless we dramatically lower our standards, and there's a deep wound that needs healing. I see monk mode as the psychological analog of bone healing: after a fracture, the body creates inflammation in the damaged zone and isolates it so it can heal. In monk mode you isolate yourself to heal and come back when the new life tissue has formed within you
31m ago The Hub
Incredibly dumb and boring is not desirable to me.
Once again I stand by my assertation. You might not have enough experience or you might just attract/be attracted to shitty women.
Anyways, I tend to avoid nihilistic views on people. Is a sign of computer touching and consuming rage porn.
@Typo-MAGAshiv certainly not, I'm not that educated I'm from Africa
1h ago The Hub
Actually, our experiences are opposite.
I used to seek substance in women, until I realised that I am chasing an illusion. It's not her job.
That's when I started to evaluate women for their obedience.
Women will take on whatever you put in them, they have no real opinions of themselves.
Also, I don't like these blanket manosphere terms like "high value".
highly desirable is more tangible.
2h ago The Hub
I think you missed the point. When you date a lot more you'll understand that life isn't about the confirmation of alpha bro sayings.
You want her to serve, fine. Most women will serve and submit to a high value man. That's just nature.
Is she a high value woman?
A woman with no personality, no experiences, dumb, no passion and bland. Is super low quality.
I have to at least like the girl and she is required to keep up with the general conversations I'm having.
If your only requirements are a warm hole, a pretty face and the ability to submit. You're in for a very rocky and painful dating life going forward.
3h ago The Hub
And I thought to myself "they can't be that cruel".. but then again they kill kids so..
3h ago The Hub
I recall you said they wanted to depopulate Ukraine to set it up as a fallback base a couple months ago
Dude, I think you were right all along.
twitter.com/OCanonist/status/1783808456379785636
The Israeli families resettling in Ukraine are probably Soviet migrants. This all just reminded of a phenomena black Americans call 'one step forward, two steps back.'
Hello everyone,
I've recently embraced the red pill and am eager to connect with others on this path. At 26, I've spent much of my life as a die-hard romantic, always treating women with respect and kindness, looking for that perfect symmetrical relationship of care and support. Despite these efforts, I've been through a rollercoaster of relationships with attractive partners. Last year, a painful breakup with my girlfriend—who left me for an older man due to my clingy behavior—was a serious wake-up call. I managed to win her back using strategies from Corey Wayne, only to realize she was a 304 and end things for good.
This breakup catalyzed my dive into personal growth in masculinity and dating dynamics, leading to a phase of casual relationships. However, I eventually fell for someone special, my oneitis, who initially reciprocated but grew distant as I reverted to old habits. I wanted to make her my girlfriend (wrong mindset ik). After two months of dating she read into my intentions and said she wasn't looking for a relationship. I ended up things only to text her again after 3 weeks. We got back to it again but this time I had already read some redpill content and was trying a different approach, practising detachment, treating her like just one more girl and keeping emotional distance. This had a dramatic effect on her interest, she started to go crazy for me and after couple weeks she told me that she needed things to go back to something more "stable" and "linear" (basically: having me back to my beta, clingy ways for her to regain full power). I was blunt and clumsy due to my overwhelming emotional investment: I refused to comply so she dumped me. She was a party girl, unnatural hair colour, openly feminist and bisexual and didn't respect her dad, also bad relationship with her family, so she wasn't long term material. Anyhow, I realized that I lost a great prospect for FWB-sex playmates (also threesome potential) because I wouldn't admit to myself that I wanted sex and fun, I'm still ashamed of my sexuality and my sexual desire and this leads to me being overly respectful and not assertive in sexual encounters.
Now, three months post-breakup, I'm grappling with intense suffering, longing and guilt. I feel like she's the most attractive girl in the world and I could never attract anyone as hot and fun as she was. But, I'm committed to learning from this. I'm focusing on casual dating to better manage my feelings and desires without overcommitting emotionally. I've taken up new hobbies like Brazilian jiu-jitsu, learning how to be a better masculine man, upgraded my wardrobe, looking for a brotherhood and I'm pursuing my ideal job. Next time I'll do things right from the get go. I just wasn't expecting to receive the interest of such an attractive girl. It was the first time in my life that I had dated the "best I can do" girl.
I'm here to share experiences and gain perspectives from those who have navigated similar paths or are curious about this journey. If this community is active, I hope we can support each other and grow together.
Looking forward to meaningful discussions and shared growth.
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