The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.
Having gotten your commitment, she sees no reason to do her part of the bargain, chores, or even bother to put in attraction or effort to the relationship.
Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship.
Yup.
Look, I know this really sucks when you're in one of these relationships, but the sad reality is that women are just not able to do monogamy in the way that we are told they can.
She isn't acting out of obligation or out of reciprocation. She is doing the bare minimum to maintain your financial commitment. She is negotiating downwards her required efforts.
I don't have a solution for you other than the observation that you have lost control. You have to keep paying but she does not have to continue putting in efforts. You are in a situation where you do not have control, you cannot remove your side of what you supply, you can't avoid paying the bills. But she sure can avoid doing housework.
Some way some how you need to regain control. Either that's threats of leaving..... or better: completely change everything in your relationship so that you have control over what you supply. What you offer has to be conditional or women will always adapt to extract your resources for the minimum of effort.
Read More@AnubiswithaDNR if she's doing what you want her to do, then why do you care what her motivation is? Are you the Thought Police?
Focus on what matters.
I decided to move in with my girlfriend of 3 years based on a traditional framework i laid out beforehand. She was happily cooking every meal, doing chores etc. 2 months in and I felt she’s grown resentful and been acting out of obligations since I pay most of the rent/bills.
She didn’t say anything or complain but I could sense it. I told her to stop doing things if she isn’t genuinely doing it from a caring point. It’s been a few days now and oh boy my attraction to her is dropping significantly. Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship. Fair to say that I’ve been very busy with work lately and i’ve not been giving her much attention.
I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.
I decided to move in with my girlfriend of 3 years based on a traditional framework i laid out beforehand. She was happily cooking every meal, doing chores etc. 2 months in and I felt she’s grown resentful and been acting out of obligations since I pay most of the rent/bills.
She didn’t say anything or complain but I could sense it. I told her to stop doing things if she isn’t genuinely doing it from a caring point. It’s been a few days now and oh boy my attraction to her is dropping significantly. Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship. Fair to say that I’ve been very busy with work lately and i’ve not been giving her much attention.
I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.
I've been fulltime traveling. Deploying several dating apps and tons of cold approaching. Ask away if you have questions
A little info about latin america. There are certainly countries where it's easier for casual dating. Some countries where you'll get more likes and some countries where girls will drag you on for 2-3 dates before sex. Culture has a lot to do with dating.
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After exploring all of latin america the past two years. I'm ready to move on to new adventures and was deciding on either the Baltics or Eastern Europe. Has anyone explored these regions extensively and found one better than the other for dating?
And by dating I mean a majority of girls less into causal dating but more traditional oriented. I wanted to go to Muslim countries but I'm afraid those are too far on the traditional end.
Just found out one of the drunk idiots at my venue (that I've never met) has HIV. No that is not a misspelling
My chick friend was going to bang him but he was being a dumbass and didn't stick by her during the night so she blocked him
She went bar hopping with who ended up being his sister and she told her her brother has HIV and was surprised he didn't tell her
Wrap up your fucking dick bois
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Fucking LOL: