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where I feel that the husband fucked up is when he fit right in the stereotype of the incompetent husband: "you ask me what to do every day [at dinner]" / "you ask me what they need in their backpacks".
We don't even know for sure that this is how it went down; it's just how she feeeeeels about it.
More likely scenario based on things I've been through, as well as additional knowledge about their situation gained from various YouTubers' response videos:
She complains and bitches no matter what he does or how he does things, and out of frustration he says "just tell me what you want!", and she views that as failure on his part.
I had this revelation with my wife quite a while back. I wrote this article in response to the giant internet argument that came about due to this viral video - x.com/Rich_Cooper/status/1907085186380284042
I came to realize that a lot of the "red pill" commenters in the debate were staunchly in the "I don't do shit for my family" category and I realized that the takeaway on /r/theredpill might actually be don't own your shit to win against feminism.
So that's why I wrote it.
And yes, as parents, we have a shared calendar on our phones and it's our bible.
Isn't that the problem, though? Your dependence on that diabolical palm-held digital device is as much a bane as it is a benefit.
You, and countless other people watched some internet distributed video, presumably of someones wife publicly denouncing their marriage to the world through her smartphone. While unpleasant, it's even more unsettling when she punctuates her denunciation with a declaration of intent to divorce. Whether these sort of videos are done in jest, in sincerity, or it's all simply a scripted and staged act, something that public understandably inspires concern in men, because we all know "I'm sorry" from a dim-witted female baring doe eyes, doesn't fix the problems her lack of discipline creates.
Unfortunately, when our society granted females enfranchisement, among the myriad of failures that preceded and followed was the lack of concern with requiring females be taught to regulate their emotions before making decisions. That's become a more pressing concern for both sexes as fathers are increasingly absent from households, and technology intrudes further into our lives.
Congrats though. You're starting to understand that the current Apple of knowledge is just as treacherous as the original. Here's the thing, it also allows the serpent greater means and ability to hurdle what defenses you believe you have, to inspire your loved ones to destroy everything around them. Thus, making the rules of the internet a legitimately critical digital self-defense resource.
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