@Incognito I don't have much experience with this kind of thing. There's a few guys here that are from conservative/muslim countries that might be able to give better advice.

I would suspect your main problem is strong social stigma/conditioning triggering ASD. AWALT is AWALT regardless of where you live.

I would make sure you are maintaining a strong alpha frame. Not having loads of boyfriendy dates and dragging out the sexual escalation for multiple dates.

Then just treat as ASD/LMR.

Give as much plausible deniability as possible for the encounter, to avoid triggering too much ASD. And so she can rationalise or easily lie about it later.

When you are in the bedroom and they throw the boyfriend line, just say no you're not their boyfriend. If they shut down then you just freeze out. Go off and do something else and deny them the attention. They may break frame, they may not.

You need to have the attitude of - this is how I do things, if you're not going to do it, I'll find someone else who will.

But yeah, you gotta be willing to walk if she doesn't play ball.

@Incognito

Hello guys,

I really need some advice, or examples on how to pass a specific shit test.

Generally I have no isue with this, but what women love to do is to give me a shit test when we are on a verge of having sex for the first time. And this is almost always some form of "tell me you are my boyfriend!"

And I just cant think clearly, my mind is blank and cant thing of anything to say.

So what would you do/say?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.