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Yeah, scrap my advice. Do not bother approaching.
Just read the "reliable ready reference".
Within a week you'll be able to levitate off the ground, turn water into wine and women will flock to you.
It's easier for me to approach men than women.
I've always been fairly confident and have always spoke to pretty much everyone around me. Im popular at my gym and talk to pretty much anyone. I have no problem going up to guys and making friends with them easily.
For some reason, it's way way harder for me to approach women with the same energy. My brain and social skills kind of just turn off when it's a girl.
This is so weird because I have absolutely no problem going up to random guys and starting a convosation.
Ive started cold approaching, which has made me realise I have this problem.
How do I fix this/get out of this weird mindset that I have.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtwiAkUj5Go
By considering that there's absolutely nothing wrong in realizing that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Interacting with other males, either online or in-person, will usually lead to more benign outcomes with no stress. You ask a few questions, you get a few replies, maybe a suggestion of a book to read and you continue on with your life.
However, with modern females this isn't possible as most are educated to see males as enemies at worst and competition at best. Whether that's good or bad, you'll have to decide for yourself.
Read MoreI swear it's like a defense mechanism to protect their ego.
That, and in their female hindbrain they believe that if they assert their status above yours, it'll somehow entitle them to even better men, or at the very least a better spot in the chick pecking order