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@Bozza He probably told not showed. Tell a woman something hard and she remembers you told her something hard and it upset her. Its usually better if she works it out for herself.
stringing along for attention
Women project so much, it's ridiculous.
We string women along for sex.
They're the attention addicts.
So recently i have dealt with a situation that was a bit confusing to me.
Went on a date with a woman I met at an art gallery event to a rooftop patio for drinks.
Date went the standard way -> drinks, flirtation, escalated as we were leaving bar and ended up making out/fooling around in the elevator as well as to a park we went nearby.
I end the date because i had to go to another thing i had to do that night.
She texts me back saying she had a nice time, we chat a bit and set up another date in a few days.
Morning of the date she hits me up with standard BS excuse.
I say i understand things happen outside our control and leave it there.
She proceeds to double text later that night apologizing and asking to reschedule.
I entertain the conversation but dont ask for another meet up. She proceeds to text all the niceties and BS a woman would stating that the she missed me (weird after one date?) and asking me when I am leaving for my work trip
She asks when I am free to which I give a vague response. She pushes me harder for a response and I give her a day.
We text a few more days setting up the date and 2 days before the date she ghosts. I leave it there.
Obviously I am a bit confused as to why she would pursue so hard only to flake both times.
My thoughts: I should have close the night of the date, or asked her to simply come over instead of setting up another date (at no point had she mentioned she wanted a relationship). Guessing the second date set up gave too much boyfriend vibes?
In the unlikely scenario she reaches out I think my response would be something along the lines: "This date thing isn't working so well for us haha, just come over and bring something nice".
Thoughts >?
Study the book. While you handled the situation well enough, the texting sessions after she canceled you should've replied with, "Busy, can't talk now." If it continued, you then place her on block and move on with your life. As far as I can tell the time you've spent chatting with her since then was a waste of time better spent on other things.
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I always forget confidence isn't your average man's default setting and how much shit I've gotten away with just by being confident and observant. Now if I could just get this consistency thing down, I'd be golden.
better explained what peacocking actually was and what it accomplished, and I'd inadvertently been doing it through my steadfast refusal to do it.
I don't wear them with peacocking in mind but my scarfs 100% check this box. Otherwise I essentially wear jeans and monocolor shirt.
I've been in the club with a bunch of stereotypical nigs one night, all wearing (probably fake) iced out, phat gold chains. Girls didn't care, they were trying to drag me around by my scarf.
Two of the brother's cornered me asking me, how the fuck in my grandmama's drapes wrapped around your neck getting more play than our 20k pieces?
Told em look around, there's 9 other dudes wearing bling, there's only one of me mother fuckers.
It was this night I got my n-word pass.
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