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What is your opinion on Rollo tomassis rule 4. Living together is bad and you should only do it if you're about to get married?
It's a dumb rule. Because if you follow it, you're marrying someone you haven't vetted properly, and you'll have no experience maintaining attraction with someone you can't hide yourself from.
It's true that living together (or any sort of enmeshment, anything that complicates GTFO) is "bad" for maintaining attraction, because you're basically signing away part of what makes a woman tick (the competition for you).
But let's get real: If you aren't planning on spinning plates your entire life, then having that experience is good before nose-diving into marriage. Also, you haven't really vetted a woman (or yourself) before you've lived with her for a couple of years.
Two years is about the time people can hide who they really are. Sucks to be you if you marry someone who - turns out - can only maintain a sex drive if she's still chasing you. Also sucks to be you if you've never tried and failed to maintain a level of dread before jumping straight into marriage.
Simply renting a place together isn't really that complicated of a thing to get out of - not compared to owning shit together, being married, and having kids. At worst (unless you're retarded), it'll cost you a couple of months' rent when things go tits up.
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I mean rent is quite expensive where I live ( about 1/3 of your income). You can't get a house under 1M.
I'm also curious about rule 5. You should control birth control. I do 100% agree with that when you're spinning plates, but when you're in a relationship... I don't like condoms and if she gets pregnant I still can go get some milk if I like to. IMO you shouldn't have a problem with here getting pregnant. If you can't imagine that scenario you shouldn't commit / keep here as a plate not gf.
Rollo Tomassi's Iron rules, specifically numbers four and five are solid counsel. Disregard them to your folly.
@Mate1212 I'm currently on the family track. Learned a lot in the past 5 years that I wish I understood 10 years ago lol
@bozza was right about everything, except that money = access to pussy. I too got laid a lot when I was broke. However, there's a lot more to life than just pussy, and money helps with a lot.
Maybe not the right terms. You can get pussy without money, but a lot harder outside of your 20s.
But generally speaking, money is power. And money will facilitate a lot of things.
Point being - dont be a brokie because you fucked a slut raw.
@Mate1212 the MRP community is still on reddit as far as I know.
@bozza was right about everything, except that money = access to pussy. I too got laid a lot when I was broke. However, there's a lot more to life than just pussy, and money helps with a lot.
Do you think it's impossible to keep the game and the attraction when moving in together?
It's possible, but why would you make your life more difficult?
"Next!" is a man's most powerful tool. Why would you make it harder to use?
Is it even possible to keep that even when having kids and being together for like 20 or more years?
My wife and I celebrated our 20 year anniversary a couple of months ago. No kids, though.
My life would have been easier had I remained single. Rollo's Iron Rules are written with wisdom and knowledge.
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@Mate1212 There's some archives here. But maybe some of the old boys might be able to give some better advice that me
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