@Lionsmane8 They are men who want the "bad bitch", very assertive (and possibly dark triad) women with talents and who do their own thing such as very talented hobbies etc. They're men who would settle for the boss bitch but still they're not effeminate, they don't want to be dominated. Just to "tame her" and "fix her". Jocks somewhat do the same hypergamous thing that actually fuck Stacies not shy reserved Beckies who barely speak a word and are considered weirdos and creepy because Stacies have very talented socially adept wirings, highly popular status... It's all about status and dark triad characteristics from teenagehood to early and mid 20s.

And the shy little girl in the corner gets ignored factually all the time. We all had a creepily isolated girl that no matter how attractive physically everyone made fun of and nobody hang around with her, securely let alone fuck her.

Can you explain this coincidence?

Last year, I met a girl who was apparently head over heels for me. We interacted a bit over the phone, set up a date, and then she flaked—acting like nothing happened. After a while, she mentioned that everything about me was "great", except she saw me as a "player." So, we stopped talking.

A month or two later later, I met another girl, same age (21) —a hairdresser. She was obsessed with me, showing it in the most obvious yet childish ways (insecure, I guess). We went on one date, and afterward, she became super clingy—yet whenever I tried to set up another date, she’d dodge making plans while still hovering around my usual spot, trying to weave herself into my daily life (we both had friends at a café I used to frequent, and the girls working there would bring me the gossip about her. she used to work at the hairdresser next door).

I got tired of her games, told her I wasn’t tolerating that BS, and cut her off, I have to admit, harshly. She almost cried. At the same time, I started dating another girl right in front of her (you could see her stomach drop when she saw us together). She changed her work location and when I asked about her sudden disappearance, the gossip was that it was to avoid me.

Now, almost a year later, I’ve run into both of them—twice—and they’re hanging out together! They’ve apparently become friends. Before this, they had zero connection—didn’t know each other, came from totally different worlds, didn’t go to the same school etc.. They just have similar SMV, the same age, and at the same level of mental maturity (not the sharpest tools in the shed).

I’m baffled. How does this even happen?