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@Vermillion-Rx It's definitely declined. Weirdly moreso in this city than elsewhere. Churn rate is insanely high.
It's like all the women are either time wasters, or they're "looking for a relationship" and want you to jump through a million hoops.
OLD incentivized this decline
There are countless penalties for men overstepping their bounds but there is no report feature or anything for the countless women abusing the app with shitty behavior
There need to be more matching options than merely just swiping that indicate if you've already made up enough of your mind at first glance so you can report bad faith women
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Women who hypersexualize their persona, usually, only bring sex to the table.
The best women I've dated, have always been fairly modest in the streets and freaks behind closed doors.
They've also brought more to our relationship than a wet hole for my dick.
I would add that this morning a young man working a few days for me asked if my daughter had got a local sponsorship grant as a track athlete. (A number of guys from his training group have had this grant). She finished mid top ten in a national final the week before last but no we have had no sponsorship for her over the years apart from a collection of free T shirts and a couple of sports shop vouchers, less than the value of a pair of cheap shoes. She wouldn't say no and I know there is money about in small amounts for people who get to national finals but in the end that's not why you compete. I am not a beggar, so, poor man though I am, I have never searched on line for the forms and I guess she has never cared enough to do it herself because Daddy will pay for her shoes and transport.
Then I look at a collection of nearly made it female athletes who are now playing soccer -much more than the top ten nationally , more like the top 500+ when you think of all the big squads out there- and these girls are getting paid and bitching about it. Its nuts!
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv They need to buy a field from subscriptions, build a club house and basket ball courts on it on it from whip rounds and donations form rich club members. When enough people come to watch the game, they can add stands and a gate and start charging -just like the men did. Until then quit your entitled moaning. Why should you get all that free sponsorship for playing a game worse than a high school boys' team? Because vagina??
I never get it when people wine about sportsmen's pay (male or female). There are thousands of weekend players who would do it for free, travel to the match for free and buy their own kit and feel they had won the lottery if they got picked for the team. You are supposed to do it because you love it, that's why you started playing.
The OLD time wasters are getting ballsy. Used to be the case that if a girl opened you, it was pretty much an open goal.
I've had 4 in the past few days who opened me, yet dodge flirting every single time. Steer the conversation to the most boring dross imaginable.
Next.
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Met a girl On event. I didnt push enough and didnt fuck, altho she was ready with degree of certainty.
That would be the end but I bumped into her while she was little tipsy. Didnt recognise her (push altho real), took her home no resistance, no ASD.
I ignore her, dont set up meeting. She finds Me on another event. I can see she is nervous/anxious, which I funnily acknowledged. I take her on a walk as she displays something that could be retroactive ASD. Plenty od shit tests.
I take her home.
3rd meeting she is relaxed. I acknowledged that with a contrast to the last time. She agrees she was anxious last time.
Conclusion. Passing Shit tests (amongst other stuff) likely was increasing my value. Which she might not be sure of since she didnt do any ASD nor shittests while tipsy.
One of the issues I struggle with as an older man, in a thus far, lovely, committed relationship; is conflating the beauty of women online, with the actual beauty of women in public.
As PON said, it's probably just my time of the month. I've been extra excited and the idea of getting some strange is enticing me.
Even though we're fucking 10+ times a week, I've found a need to relieve myself. Still, self posted photos of all types of gals. Plus a few old plates have been hitting me up on Snapchat and they're looking good for summer.
I've noticed while viewing hyper sexualized photos of women, not even pornographic, I tend to view my woman as less attractive. When in reality, when we go out, she's easily more attractive than 70% of the other females out. Plus I know her body. It's shape isn't just supported by spandex.
In essence the presence of social media, allowing hyper sexualized images into my life, triggers a FOMO or grass in always greener line of thinking in regards to my girlfriend.
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Part of the trap I fell into as a younger man first experiencing love was conflating reality with the illusions of grandeur me and the girl painted.
In short I clung to failing relationships, not for the reality of what was going on within them but desperately hoping for the happily ever after to just manifest out of all said turmoil.
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