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I’d use the term crowd loosely lol I have no friends locally. My primary source of meeting women outside of dating apps is the dog park or the bar when a friend visits
@carnold03 I’d use the term crowd loosely lol I have no friends locally. My primary source of meeting women outside of dating apps is the dog park or the bar when a friend visits
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Should i ghost her or act like nothing happen?
Made a terrible mistake despite the AWALT mentality.
I've been dating this girl for 2 weeks (we haven't had sex yet, since it's only been a coffee date). She clearly is into me and she knew i'm into her but last night she got drunk with 4 guys and 2 girls. She said she doesn't remember how she got home someone "dropped her off." She didn't call or message me afterward and kept apologizing when I answered her call, especially after hearing my aloof tone.
She knows what she did is a red flag drinking with 4 men. She's a 9/10, and those guys were flirting with her. I'm pretty sure she's flirting back, given her attitude. And I suspect she might have hooked up with someone that night.
Now, should I ghost her or just act like nothing happened and keep her as a "plate"? The thing is, I already sent her a LTR beta cuck provider signal, so I don't think i can just plate her easily.
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haha no not a bitter incel. I guess my point is that being in red pill for 11+ years, I’ve accomplished everything that is preached and you’d think it would make dating a breeze. It in fact, does not
I speculate having a higher SMV just opens the door to better looking girls, you still get the same treatment tho
With the circles you're running in, everyone has options, but what blows my mind about the 7-up crowd is that delusion isn't applicable to them. A lot of them are clearly insane. Regardless, I'm hopeful that you'll find someone who's a good fit, but I won't blow smoke up your @$$ denying that it may be a while yet until you find each other.
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@Bozza yep. Arguably worse, in some ways. Average girls have delusional standards - imagine what a 10 has
@Bozza Before I got to the RP I was listening to RSD, and there was this thing that was RP - regarding
You get more success, but you also get more problems.
"You will always get problems, but the quality of the problem will change" - it sticks with me.
I speculate having a higher SMV just opens the door to better looking girls, you still get the same treatment tho
You get more success, but you also get more problems.
For me it's always been akin to "water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink".
Finding attractive women is easy, getting laid is easy. Finding one you actually want to date - incredibly rare.
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@carnold03 haha no not a bitter incel. I guess my point is that being in red pill for 11+ years, I’ve accomplished everything that is preached and you’d think it would make dating a breeze. It in fact, does not
I speculate having a higher SMV just opens the door to better looking girls, you still get the same treatment tho
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What would cause this gal to flake and ghost?
Been seeing a gal, 9/10 by any standard (I only mention that becuase I know she has unlimited options), expressed extremely high interest from date 1.
- She Initiated a kiss and holding hands half way thru date one
- Hooked up date 2
- Bought me a gift by date 3 and talked about where she wanted to travel to together
- Date 4, we watched a movie, hooked up, she helped me pick out furniture for my house, she cooked for me and we made plans to hangout today.
Last date was Thursday, today rolls around and I haven’t heard from her even 4 hours after the planned date time. Just zero contact since Friday.
Should I continue waiting for her and not reach out? My assumption is always that there is another guy she met but it’s so far outta left field, as fickle and fleeting as I know women are. I’d be hard fetched to believe she found anyone better on paper.
Not to toot my own horn but I’m 6’2, bodybuild, drive a brand new McLaren and have my own house at 27. I just can’t see how she’d be so inclined to be open to meeting anyone else, let alone finding better (on paper, I know its all about how a guy makes her feel emotionally regardless of accolades)
That last paragraph gave me some subtle Elliot Rodger vibes. Regardless, you already mentioned she had other options. She likely chose to pursue them. Fortunately for you, this has given you the freedom of conscience to pursue your own. Drive your supercars because you enjoy doing it and interacting with like-minded people who share such a hobby. Treat the females such cars may draw in as a nice convenience, but don't go expecting too much from their sort.
Study the book. She had her chance and blew it. It doesn't matter why she flaked, only that she did. As I've said before, "Better to find out you're not a good fit with each other as soon as possible, than after several years of marriage with children."
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